Why do married men always haunt you?

The reason why married men pester you may come from two reasons. On the one hand, the reason is that he has a good impression on you; Another reason is that you have never explicitly rejected him. Those married men sometimes meet a good-looking woman outside their marriage, and they can't help thinking about Doby and having some stories with each other. At the very least, this kind of behavior of married men may be just playing with ambiguity, and at worst, cheating on their wives. Most married men will pester women who he thinks grew up in their own aesthetic point, and only when he has a good impression on you will they pester you. Of course, the attitude of women who are entangled by married men at this time is also very important. If the woman's attitude is ambiguous, and she wants to refuse and welcome, then the married man will definitely push his luck even more. Therefore, it is not difficult for a married man to stop pestering you, that is, to know how to flatly refuse him and let him die. Married men are love rat's performance. Married men are one of the most obvious manifestations of love rat, and that is cheating. The love rat essence of an unfaithful man is not only reflected in his attitude towards marriage and his wife, but also in his attitude towards having a mistress outside marriage. In real life, there are often many married men who like to pretend to be single men and pick up girls. They conceal their married status, pretend to be golden bachelors, and cheat the feelings of women outside marriage. Some simple women, who are not so rich in emotional experience, may be cheated and then unconsciously "cheated". Moreover, many married men cheat again and again. Sometimes their cheating will be discovered by their wives. On the surface, they may admit their mistakes and pretend to return to their families. In fact, they continue to secretly contact Xiao San and continue to do things that betray their marriage. The worst thing about married men cheating is that they cheat frequently and don't know how to repent. Married men are love rat's performance, and another very important aspect is that they have no sense of responsibility for marriage and family. After marriage, I still love to play. I don't work hard all day and I don't want to do better. I can still be free every day. Why do married men tease you 1? There are many married men who want to pour out their worries, but he is not good at telling his wife. Some stress may come from family. When he can't stand it, he wants to find a stranger, so the man who picks up girls may be looking for a bosom friend. From this perspective, he feels that strangers know themselves better than their wives. Even if such a man doesn't cheat, he is not far from cheating. 2. Prove your charm after marriage. In fact, men value their charm very much. Some people are very vain, and even if they get married, they have to prove their charm. At this time, he can experience unprecedented satisfaction from the process of picking up girls. If the girl is successful, it shows that he is still attractive, so a man with this mentality, picking up girls, is most likely to cheat. Picking up girls, a man who just wants to play with you, is irresponsible. He only cares about his own enjoyment and forgets the woman who accompanied him through the storm. He can only say that such a man is not only mean, irresponsible and unmanly, but also he will not give his true feelings to those who have teased him, so women should stay away from such married men, who tease you just for fun. I really like your married man. There is little possibility of liking you. The word "ho ho" is not serious in itself, so it is difficult to have feelings for you. Of course there are exceptions. Maybe there really is a married man who likes you. Anyway, women should not entangle with married men, which is good for everyone. How to avoid entanglement with married men and not believe in sweet words is what married men are best at. They can almost see that people are talking nonsense about the sweet words of young girls. The standard words are directed at the girl's heart and will make the girl feel bored when she hears them. In the face of the sweet words of married men, or beyond the normal praise, we must not believe it easily. 2, don't have the idea of one step into the sky. Generally speaking, the images of young girls shown by married men are successful, mature, elegant, gentleman, considerate, gentle and so on. In short, girls will feel that they are standard successful people. And some girls with more vanity and money worship will have the idea that "possessing him is equal to owning the whole world", so this idea of reaching the sky in one step will only make them fall into the "trap" of married men. Don't be a "free tool" for his physical desires. I remember watching a legal program in which a young girl hanged herself in her hotel because the married man who "deeply loved" her ignored her. The "original wife" sent her a thank-you letter thanking her for satisfying her husband's physical desire and finding a free tool to vent her desire. It looks cruel, but isn't it? If you really love her, how can you ignore her dozens of phone calls and messages in one night and let her commit suicide? A young body is precious. Leave it to the people who really love you. Why do married men always haunt you? 2. Who are married men likely to have an affair with? Married men's ambiguous objects are basically divided into three categories: one is friends or colleagues who get along with each other day and night; One is that you may know each other, even just once, but with WeChat, you are not so familiar with friends of the opposite sex; There is another category, that is, female netizens who can chat online but have never met in real life. Do married men have an affair with people they don't like? Usually not. Although there is a difference between ambiguity and liking, a man will not indiscriminately grab a girl he doesn't dislike and seduce her. Unless this man is a playboy in nature, he will never play an affair with a woman he doesn't like or feel. Ambiguity may sometimes sound less serious, but ambiguity is not bottomless. Ambiguity has principles and minimum standards. If the other person is completely out of his aesthetic range, the man will never provoke her. How to refuse a married man to have an affair with 1, with a clear attitude and a firm position? What I am most afraid of is the ambiguity of women's attitude, which easily makes married men misunderstand that they still have a chance. If you don't like him and want to refuse him, you should refuse him decisively and simply, with a clear attitude, and don't give him any possibility of misunderstanding easily. 2, don't hesitate, don't be soft-hearted. Maybe sometimes a woman will be embarrassed to refuse a married man because she is soft-hearted. Not knowing your softness will only make the other person think that you are playing with him. Therefore, when a woman rejects a married man, she must make a decisive decision and not give him an ambiguous opportunity. 3, don't joke with him, don't give him a response. Women should remember that a married man has a family and a wife, so no matter how good he is to you, no matter how much he pursues you, you can't give him any response. You should learn to reject him, and learn to reject him flatly when he is joking with you. Don't play games with him, not giving him a response is the best refusal. Tell him that you have someone you like. If a married man still pesters you after you refuse him, or continues to have an affair with you and pursue you, then a woman can tell him that you already have someone you like. If it is really difficult to get rid of it, you can also find friends of the opposite sex to cover for yourself and let married men retreat. In short, when a woman is pestered by a married man, don't put up with it silently, but ask people around her for help.