What can women who are victims of PUA do?

Women who are victims of PUA can collect evidence, seek support, treat themselves well, and get legal consultation.

1. Collect evidence. Keep the chat text message records and transfer records with the other party; keep the group photos and single photos with the other party; collect evidence that the other party has disclosed his privacy, etc.

2. Seek support. If your family and friends are still unable to give you enough help, you can seek some professional services from outside, such as psychological counseling provided by universities, psychological outpatient clinics in regular hospitals, or social psychological institutions. ?

3. Be kind to yourself. First, take good care of your body. ?

4. Legal consultation. Female victims can keep relevant evidence and consult the police, lawyers, or public welfare organizations that defend women’s rights (for example, anti-PUA public welfare organizations).

Extended information

A typical case of PUA - Bao Li incident:

On October 9, 2019, Bao Li, a female student from Peking University Law School, was in Beijing He committed suicide by taking medicine in a hotel and was declared "brain dead" while being sent to the hospital for treatment. Relevant chat records show that before Bao Li committed suicide, her boyfriend Mou Linhan had made a series of demands to Bao Li such as taking nude photos, getting pregnant first and then having an abortion and leaving a medical record, and undergoing sterilization surgery.

Bao Li’s mother believed that Mou Linhan’s torture was the main reason for Bao Li’s suicide, but Mou Linhan denied this. On April 12, 2020, according to media reports such as Red Star News, The Paper, and the Beijing News, reporters learned from Lanhe Lawyers of Beijing Jingshi Law Firm that Peking University student Bao Li died in the hospital at noon on April 11.

In this intimate relationship that lasted for several months, was there any fact of mental infringement such as "mind control" that was hotly debated by public opinion? To what extent did these behaviors directly lead Bao Li to... An endless road is always the focus.