Will the wrong person scold you, Zhihu?

After reading your description carefully, you find it hard to hear your girlfriend scold you now. In fact, these words express your girlfriend's anger at breaking up. She doesn't want to break up.

You've been together for five years, and it's normal that you have both sweetness and contradiction. It's just a communication problem between you that makes you feel depressed at home and want to escape.

Your girlfriend's breakup may be a bit artificial, but it's more about testing your feelings for her and using your feelings for her to achieve your goals. She ignored this method, and it won't work for a long time, which is a bit like the feeling of a wolf coming.

Imagine, if you change your communication mode and feel no longer depressed and disdainful at home, will you still get divorced?

No matter who you marry, you must enter the running-in period. If there is a problem, just solve it. As you said, you have been together for five years, and she used the best five years of her life to transform you in order to be happier together in the future. I didn't expect you to dump me at last.

I hope I can help you!