"Let's cancel the wedding, I can't forget her." A man regrets marrying his first love, why does he regret marrying his first love?

Some people always say that the best way to forget your last relationship is to start a new one.

Such feelings are unfair to both parties.

People with this mentality stay in the memories of the past and cannot find themselves.

The innocent people who were involved in this love conspiracy became the antidote for healing without knowing it.

Every relationship should be treated responsibly, and everyone involved should devote themselves to it.

I heard a story some time ago. The man went back on his promise a few days before the wedding, and the beautiful wedding came to nothing.

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Li Jinghang is 26 years old. After graduating from graduate school, he worked in a trading company.

With excellent professional knowledge, you will prosper in your career and your future will be bright.

Not only that, he is also a winner in life when it comes to love.

He has been with his first girlfriend for six years, their relationship is stable, and they already have plans to get married.

What people didn’t expect was that the two families were very unhappy about the bride price.

My girlfriend Xiaolin’s family asked for a bride price of 180,000 yuan, and they must buy a house in this city in full.

Unfortunately, Xiao Li’s family conditions are not good. In addition, he has just started working and does not have a lot of savings on hand.

There was a stalemate like this. What Xiao Li didn’t expect was that his girlfriend would start dating other men.

Xiao Li angrily went to Xiao Lin’s house to question him, but Xiao Lin refused to see him, and his girlfriend’s mother even sarcastically said:

“You are a poor boy, you have nothing, and you are still delaying What are you doing with my daughter? Look at me, my family owns a company and is very generous, how can you compare?" After saying that, he pushed Xiao Li out of the house.

Afterwards, Xiao Li called his girlfriend many times, but was rejected. He only received a text message in reply, which read: We are not suitable, let’s break up.

After the breakup, Xiao Li was immersed in the pain of broken love all day long and was listless every day.

His friend comforted him: "Why are you doing this? They have already found a new partner, and what's the use if you are still immersed in it and can't get out?"

Xiao Li was touched by his friend's words, but in his girlfriend's eyes, he was nothing at all.

Xiao Li decided that he would also find another girlfriend to show his first love that he could live a good life without her.

Under the introduction of a colleague, Xiao Li met Ziyan, and soon the two fell in love.

I originally thought that Xiao Li would let go of his previous relationship and start a good relationship with Ziyan, but it didn't end like this.

Zi Yan takes very good care of Xiao Li. Xiao Li works a lot of overtime and is always unable to eat on time, so Zi Yan brings him meals on time every time.

Ziyan took good care of him in every aspect of food, clothing, housing and transportation.

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One day at noon, Zi Yan came to see Xiao Li. When they were having lunch, Zi Yan asked: "Is Xiao Lin your previous girlfriend?"

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Xiao Li didn’t want to hide anything and answered: “Yes.”

Zi Yan said: “Were you two very close before? Why did you break up?”

Xiao Li I don't want to recall the past and choose to ignore these problems.

Ziyan smiled awkwardly and said, "Don't worry, I'm just asking casually. By the way, didn't you mention last time that you were taking me to see my aunt this week?"< /p>

Xiao Li replied: "My home is in the countryside. If you don't mind, come."

So this weekend, Xiao Li took Ziyan back to his hometown.

Xiao Li’s mother and Ziyan were very close to each other, and she directly called her daughter-in-law.

When they were parting, Xiao Li’s mother secretly asked Xiao Li: “Son, you are not young anymore. When are you going to get married?

Mom knows, but you are still thinking about me. Xiaolin, it’s impossible for you two. Ziyan is really good to you, don’t miss such a good girl.”

Xiao Li didn’t answer his mother’s question. left.

On the way back to the city, Ziyan said to Xiao Li: "When we get married, we will take my mother to live in the city so that she will not be alone.

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Xiao Li thought that his mother had worked hard to raise him, and he should have been blessed, but now he was still worried about his feelings.

He knew that only when he settled down could his mother Being able to truly feel at ease.

He said to Ziyan: "Okay, let's get married. Ziyan was flattered and nodded in agreement.

That afternoon, Ziyan took Xiao Li to meet her parents.

Although Ziyan’s parents were not optimistic about Xiao Li’s performance. However, Ziyan kept speaking kindly to Xiao Li, and finally, the parents agreed to their marriage.

After that, Xiao Li and Ziyan began to worry about the wedding.

Three days before the wedding, he received a call from Xiaolin, who said: "Bless you, my favorite man. It's just that my parents didn't agree with us being together, but I finally convinced them, but what I waited for was the news that you were getting married. "

After listening to Xiao Lin's words, Xiao Li asked: "Don't you already have a new boyfriend?

Xiao Lin replied: "My mother forced me to meet that kind of person. I am not in a relationship. You are the one who violated our original vow." ”

Xiao Li’s heart was filled with joy. It turned out that his first love did not betray him, and everything that happened during this period was wrong.

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Xiao Li Li decided to make everything right. He made an appointment with Ziyan and said with shame: "I'm sorry, Ziyan, you are a good girl, but I am not worthy of you. The reason why I am with you is because I was hurt by my first girlfriend.

But now, I know that she did not betray me and abandon me. We have been in a relationship for six years. I can't let her go. Let's cancel our wedding. "

When Ziyan heard this, she said sadly: "Is your behavior fair to me? Don't you have any feelings for me? My feelings are so cheap to you. Now that your first love has returned, will you abandon me? ”

Xiao Li was silent, speechless for Zi Yan, and in the end, the wedding was cancelled.

Strike while the iron is hot, Xiao Li and Xiao Lin got married.

I thought that Xiao Li and his first love truly loved each other and were finally happy, but the reality was far from that.

After the marriage, Xiao Li said to Xiao Lin: "My mother is alone. In the countryside, I want to bring her to the city to live with you. "

Unexpectedly, Xiao Lin became unhappy all of a sudden and said in a bad tone: "Isn't this house enough for the two of us? Wouldn't it be even more inconvenient to have another outsider come? ”

Xiao Li was dissatisfied and the two had a big quarrel. Xiao Lin went back to her parents’ house angrily.

Xiao Li knew that this matter had to be discussed slowly, so he could only compromise first and go Xiao Lin's house picked her up.

When he arrived at his mother-in-law's house, Xiao Li explained his intention, and his mother-in-law asked him to wait in the living room. The two of them talked in the room.

Xiao Li walked to Xiao Lin's room. I walked forward and listened carefully, only to hear my mother-in-law say: "If you hadn't been able to get that rich man, I wouldn't have agreed to let you marry such a poor man. At least he will still obey your words, as long as you firmly disagree with letting your mother-in-law come. ”

After hearing these words, Xiao Li realized that the relationship between the two of them had already deteriorated.

Xiao Li was disheartened by this relationship and finally decided to end it Let go, the two divorced hastily.

Recalling what happened with Ziyan in the past, Xiao Li really regretted it.

He missed a girl who loved him wholeheartedly and hurt a good girl.

However, he is no longer qualified to appear in front of Ziyan. Now he can only silently bless Ziyan with his guilt.

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For many boys, first love is the white moonlight in their hearts, the person they cannot love.

Time can modify the beauty of two people, but it can hardly cover up the true nature of each other. Problems that exist.

If you want to get back together, you will still face the same problems as before, and you will end up in a dead end.

If you don’t put yourself in a good mood, you will start falling in love hastily. Oneself is a kind of harm to others.

In love, there is no first come, first served. No matter who you are, everyone is equally important and needs to be cherished.