How to refuse my brother-in-law's SMS invitation?

"I have two sisters and a younger brother, and they have a good relationship. My parents are also very kind to us. I have always felt that our family is particularly harmonious. I like my family very much and I like the atmosphere of our family very much.

My two brothers-in-law are from our village, and they have a good relationship with my parents, especially my eldest sister-in-law, who has a good family condition and a nice person. He is usually very kind to my parents and has a good relationship with our brother and sister. My second sister sometimes plays jokes on him. My sister is the best of our three sisters, with a good brother-in-law, obedient children and good family conditions.

Married in another province in 2008, divorced on 20 19, and went back to my hometown to live with my parents. Then I met DaJieFu several times.

Then in April, I did a little business with my eldest sister's daughter and had more contact with my brother-in-law. I watch it every day and can't say a few words. I am not very good at chatting, especially with my brother-in-law. I don't think there is anything to talk about.

The snack business with my niece stopped after only one month, so my elder sister and I didn't see them very much, because her business was busy and I didn't like to go out. Then my brother-in-law sent me a WeChat the other day. Chatting is normal at first. Actually, I really don't want to talk to him. As mentioned above, I am not good at chatting, and there is nothing to talk about with my brother-in-law. It is purely polite to reply to the message.

Later, he said something he wanted to say, but he was afraid to say it. It's uncomfortable not to say it I thought he was having trouble with my sister, so I advised him. He said no, just wanted to say something he was afraid to say. I vaguely felt that he was implying something, so I didn't reply to his message.

In the evening, he sent a message that he was drunk and asked me if I didn't see it. Heaven and earth conscience, I really didn't notice him at dinner. Later, he said that he wanted to say something, but he was afraid to say it. It was uncomfortable not to say it.

He keeps saying that my sister is the best, and he works hard to make money just to give my sister a good life. What does he take my sister for? Aren't you afraid that our sisters will turn against each other? Aren't you afraid that his happy home is gone now?

I can't sleep well now I'm going to look for a job with friends from other provinces, and I won't come back for the time being. What should I do? "

My suggestion: He is obviously seducing you. If you don't want to, refuse him seriously, instead of avoiding him. You can reply directly: if you flirt with me again, I will hack you.

You must be clear about your attitude towards this kind of thing, otherwise you will not refuse or show your attitude. He thinks you have ideas, too, so you must resolutely refuse. If he still has ambiguous text messages, then hack WeChat and reduce personal contact.

Lahei is the best refusal. If he is smart, stop here. If he is still pestering, then tell him straight away that it is impossible and he doesn't want to live a good life.