Which hurts the most, breaking up by text message or breaking up in person?

Nowadays, more and more people, mostly young people, break up through SMS, WeChat or other social software instead of face-to-face communication or phone calls.

Many people said that they broke up with their partners through text messages or social media to avoid being under pressure or getting into trouble. A woman explained, "In this case, I don't have to look at his face or listen to his voice, so I can be completely honest. He is a very good person, but I want to take another road. "

An interesting and terrible phenomenon is that she said that short messages made her confess, so that she wouldn't lie and whitewash the real reason for breaking up. Through SMS, we don't have to say anything more: "It's not because of you, it's my problem", but it's more direct.

Now there is another way to break up, that is, not telling each other, just changing your status on social software. A girl told me, "When I was in college, my boyfriend broke up by changing his Facebook identity to" single ". Six years later, we were together again, and this time he broke up with me by text message. Maybe I shouldn't be with him anymore

The saddest kind of breakup is not a vigorous quarrel between the two sides, a big fight, empathy of one side, and the inability of everyone to combine. The saddest breakup is a silent breakup. Amy Cheung

Yes, Xiao Xian is right, just like a person's battlefield, no one fights with you at all, or even alone. Or like a person playing squash, he has to catch the ball he serves, sweat repeatedly until he is exhausted, put down his racket, sit down, drink water and be in a daze. The only difference is how long your endurance can keep you going. No matter how long it takes, the result is the same.

Silence and silence may seem to be the most considerate, humane and rational way to treat others, but in fact the wound may be the deepest. Because no one is arguing with you at all, no one is arguing with you, and no one tells you what the reason is and what the problem is. What you can do is constantly reflect on yourself, analyze yourself, deny yourself, and draw one or countless virtual conclusions that can never be confirmed. No one tells you which of your assumptions is the correct solution, or whether it is single choice or multiple choice. You have no idea at all. Is it the pleasure of knowing the cruelest truth with a simple sword, or is it comfortable to deceive yourself and die?