I didn't reply to your message. I'll explain it to you.

Love is a matter of two people, and it needs two people to manage each other. If you want a future, I suggest you talk to him. What are you talking about? Since love is a matter for two people, it means that two people should complement each other, which means that they can get rid of their shortcomings for each other, make progress together and slowly get used to it, so that they can last for a long time. If you adapt to him alone, you will be very tired and he will go too far. If he won't change for you, even if you fall in love again, it won't be long before you will be apart. That's how my girlfriend and I got here. I just changed from a playboy to a single-minded person, hoping to help you.