My boyfriend won't give me a gift on his own initiative. Should I remind him?

I think it is necessary to remind him, because as a boy, to be honest, I seldom give my girlfriend a gift, and I always buy him a favorite gift actively or passively at his constant request. Actually, it's not that I don't like him, nor that I don't love him. I just feel that sometimes the gifts I choose are not so satisfactory. Instead, let him tell me what he wants, and then I will help him choose.

So when girls let you meet your boyfriend, they rarely come forward and tell you that they want to buy you a gift. Don't worry, it's not that he doesn't love you enough, but that he really doesn't know what to buy you. After all, buying gifts is expensive, but it is not desirable. If you buy it cheaply, you will feel distressed and feel that you don't care. Therefore, if you want something in your daily life, you should say it as soon as possible. As long as it is appropriate and reasonable, I believe that your wish will come true in the end.

And be sure to tell him exactly when reminding him to buy a gift. It seems that some time ago, this joke was particularly popular on the Internet. Actually, I asked my husband to go out and buy something back. Because the expression is not clear, the result of buying things is very different from what I want. Therefore, it is better to describe the gift accurately. Of course, the most important thing is not to ask for gifts, but to express mutual dependence through gifts.

It's like when I remember college, one of my roommates came across such an example. In fact, at that time, his relationship with another girl was not stable, but that girl kept asking her to buy him gifts. At first, there were some small pendants and some simple clothes. But later, it involved some mobile phones and expensive jewelry. But that roommate always wanted to pursue him, and we felt normal at first. But then I found out that it was wrong at first, because what the girl wanted was getting more and more expensive, and we thought that she was fishing for Kai Zi. So I kept hinting that something was wrong with my roommate, and finally I found out that this girl was here to cheat her into buying a gift.