Mom often says, "If it weren't for you, I would have divorced.". I am sad. How should I get along with her?

If it weren't for you, my mother often mentioned my divorce. If you make yourself sad, everyone can communicate with her. Tell mom that she is not her burden. If she wants a divorce, she can ask her father. There is no need to give up your wonderful life because of your daughter.

I believe many parents have said this, but parents don't have the courage to do so. They came up with an excuse that they wanted to give their children a complete family, so they chose to endure it. But you can help your mother change her traditional cognition and tell her that society is very inclusive now. Although many people's families look perfect, each family has its own problems. Parents also have their own brilliant lives, and they can pursue the life they want without being bound by marriage. But in this process, we should give our mother more strength in the future, and let us bravely step out of 1. I believe my mother will definitely come to live high.

In this family environment, I believe everyone will feel suffocated. If mom still thinks so, everyone can choose to leave. If you are in college, the days of getting together and going home are very short. You can do some social practice in summer vacation or winter vacation, which will reduce the chance to meet your mother. At the same time, if you feel that the relationship between mom and dad is not particularly good, you can also reconcile. For example, dad bought a gift for mom. You can tell mom that dad always loves mom, but he is just not good at words.

In this case, everyone must have confidence in themselves. It's irresponsible of mom to say so. Maybe mom doesn't want to leave this marriage siege, but she can't find a good excuse, so she finds fault with her children. Everyone needs to realize that the reason for this phenomenon is not himself, but that he gave birth to himself without consent.