How to chat after blind date

How to chat after blind date? When you meet a girl you like, the blind date process is also relatively harmonious. After returning home from the blind date, you definitely need to strike while the iron is hot to further close the relationship. Do you know how to chat after a blind date? Let's have a look.

How to chat after blind date 1 1. How to communicate and chat after blind date.

In this fast-paced life era, blind date is undoubtedly an efficient way. You can get to know the opposite sex with your own conditions through the introduction of others, and then two people can get to know each other together, observe and see if they can walk into the marriage hall together. So, how to communicate and chat after blind date?

1, which can be introduced from irrelevant topics.

When two people meet for the first time, there may be nothing to say. At this time, we can introduce the weather. For example, the weather is really good today, and it is easy to make people feel better when it is good. I like to be happy every day. I am an optimist ... which naturally introduces the topic.

2. You can appreciate each other appropriately.

. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Although you are not in front of your lover, it is also possible that ta will be your lifelong companion, so you can appreciate each other appropriately, for example, you seem to be a very kind person, you are really handsome, you talk funny and so on, which can also lead to many chat topics.

3. You can talk about some good memories.

For example, telling interesting stories about my childhood and some memories of my school days will lead to many topics, because childhood stories are always not beautiful in everyone's heart and are not worth remembering. At the same time, we can also know what kind of person ta is in the other person's conversation and memories.

4. Talk about your family.

Although everyone's living environment is different, they all live with their closest relatives. Among these relatives, there will always be people who have a great influence on themselves. By talking about their family, we can get a good understanding of this person's growth experience, and at the same time, we can get a good understanding of this person's personality through t a's attitude towards his family. If a person doesn't even feel close to his family, he should consider whether such a person is worth socializing with.

Second, the method of communication and chat after blind date

1, telephone contact

In the process of our blind date, if you don't think the other person is rough, don't refuse him in a hurry. You can try to communicate, give each other more opportunities and give yourself a chance. Some people are slow-heating, and it takes a long time to realize their feelings, so don't worry. You have been worried for so long, and you are not in a hurry.

Step 2 meet each other

During the blind date, some people will think that you just contacted by phone and did nothing. I don't know if you really like each other or have an agenda, so we can try to contact each other by phone, meet more, show each other around the environment, travel and enhance our feelings.

3. Network communication

Now the society is progressing, and all kinds of chat software are available. For example, QQ chat, which is commonly used in our life. Some people are introverted and embarrassed to call, and even more embarrassed to go out on a date. We can try QQ chat or other chats to tell each other what we want to express. Let the other person know what you mean.

Step 4 give each other small gifts

If you are familiar with each other, you can try to give each other small gifts, such as dolls or flowers, which girls like very much. But when sending, we must pay attention to the fact that the types and quantities of flowers have different meanings.

Third, the method of communication and chat after blind date

1, contact actively.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will disgust her. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and her feelings are slowly fading. After the kiss, strike while the iron is hot if you like.

2. contact more.

. Be sure to contact more after a blind date. At least one text message every day is a must. Of course, it's best not to call every day. It's enough to make a phone call every two days, otherwise it's easy to be rejected. Besides, we just dated, we haven't known each other that well, and we may not know what to say on the phone. Wechat or chatting at night is different, even if you don't know each other, you can speak freely.

3. Give small gifts.

If you are familiar with each other, you can also give each other some small gifts, such as dolls and flowers. Most girls like flowers. However, when sending flowers, we must pay attention to the different meanings of the types and quantities of flowers, and there are tips for giving gifts. It depends on the financial conditions of the girl's family. Giving her something that makes her feel a little expensive, but not too expensive, will increase the girl's financial burden. You should let her know that you love her, not with money. Of course, you can't send something too cheap and sentence you to death directly. People will think you are stingy.

4. Physical contact.

Women are tactile animals, so take the initiative to shake hands. Another example is walking together and touching your arms, accidentally touching your hair, and touching your fingers when handing things. In short, there are many opportunities. But you must pretend that you didn't mean it. You don't have to apologize. Pretend nothing happened. Mastering this will soon break through the first line of defense and eliminate strangeness.

Fourth, the method of communication and chat after blind date

1, determine the first feeling.

For blind date, you can see this person intuitively, no matter from appearance, temperament, conversation. Although many things can be concealed, many things cannot be concealed. You can determine your feelings for him from the communication between you. If you are from the Appearance Association, filter it first. If it really doesn't work, you can go next. Continue after you have confirmed your first feeling, otherwise it is likely to be a waste of each other's time. Actually, going out on a blind date is not for fun.

2. Call or text.

After the blind date, if you are interested, you will usually leave your own phone number and other contact information. Since you are interested, let's not refuse in a hurry. We can improve communication, usually make more phone calls, send text messages, be caring and attentive, and get to know each other's personality and habits in depth. A deeper understanding is whether it suits you. Some people are not the "love at first sight" type, but need you to take your time.

Step 3 make an appointment.

People say "seeing is believing", although what I want to express here is only literal meaning: the longer you listen to the sound, the clearer you can see. Although you keep in touch by phone, if you want to further promote the development of your relationship, we might as well invite each other out to meet, watch movies together, take a walk together and so on. Of course, there are many things to do here, depending on your hobbies. Anyway, the more romantic the better. If the other party has not rejected you, then your relationship has taken another step.

4. Video chat

If you are still interested in the other person, you will feel pain if you leave him for a minute. You just want to find him when you leave, but the reality itself does not allow you to do so. It doesn't really matter. With the progress of society, there are more ways and means of communication. Maybe you don't have time to date someone, maybe you don't know how to express your feelings when dating, so let's open a video (if the other party doesn't refuse), an online video. In front of the camera, you may not be so stiff. This is also a very OK way of communication.

How to chat after blind date? 2. What to talk about after blind date?

1, simple greetings

In the early days after the blind date, the two were still strangers to each other. After the blind date, you can ask the girl, "Are you at home? I'm relieved that you are at home. "Simply say hello. Don't continue to talk to girls at this time. You can find a reason to retreat first.

This practice is to prevent girls from being busy with their own affairs and chatting with you seamlessly, so when is the right time to chat with girls? Since we added each other's WeChat, we can chat with the girl by observing her circle of friends. A girl has time to send a circle of friends, which shows that she is still relatively leisure and can chat with girls according to the content of her circle of friends. If girls don't take the initiative, you can talk to them after dinner (7-8).

2. Start the topic with interesting things in life.

The day after the blind date, we still know very little about girls. Because we don't understand, we may start with "What are you doing" because we can't find a suitable topic to chat with girls, and then enter the embarrassing chat mode of asking and answering questions.

So you can use a small video to share interesting things around you to start the topic instead of talking, which is more interesting and novel, more attractive to girls than asking them "What are you doing" and more willing to let her reply.

3. Learn to interrupt the chat

The purpose of our chat is to build attraction. When she has a good attitude and a high mood in the chat, it shows that she has established attraction. When the conversation is happily over, girls will have the impulse to chat with you again, paving the way for the next chat or invitation. Play hard to get! Let her fall in love with you inadvertently in a small fluctuation of her heart.

Second, how to ask her out again after the blind date?

1. Judge when she is interested in herself.

After the blind date, if we want to make another appointment, we should also judge whether she is interested in us and whether she is satisfied with this blind date. At this time, we can use teasing and pets to judge, such as:

I feel that you are shy today.

I didn't realize you liked puppies.

You're not what I expected.

Start with what you talked about or met on a blind date. If a girl is satisfied with this blind date, it can be judged by the number of words and the speed of her reply.

2. Create a relaxed chat atmosphere and invite girls.

Confirm that she is interested in us, and after having some acquaintances, we can invite the next meeting in time when the chat atmosphere is good.

However, girls' good feelings will not last forever, and will gradually fade with the passage of time. So you must seize every opportunity to meet, grasp the girl's good feelings in the chat, and determine the location of the second date.

You don't have to choose a coffee shop or a western restaurant for the second date, but choose some interactive occasions to promote the progress of their relationship. Such as playgrounds, catching dolls, short trips, outdoor barbecues, etc.

How to chat after blind date? First, after the first meeting, if there is no topic of special interest, I would rather talk less or not, and don't just ask if I have eaten or drunk every day. Are you asleep? Will expose your boredom. Might as well spend some money to order a takeaway for her.

Second, the choice of chat time is very important. Choose a time that suits each other. For example, on the way to work, between 8: 30 and 10: 30 in the evening; Especially at night, people are often fragile and need emotional comfort. If you can make her feel warm and relaxed, it will be very helpful for the development of feelings.

Third, try to find something interesting. If you are good at it and the other person is interested, you can talk in depth instead of always talking in general terms. If you think the other person doesn't want to talk, don't worry too much, even if it's important to stop talking.

Fourth, no matter how good online chat is, you still have to get married. Create more contact opportunities, so that you have the opportunity to show more good things to each other, so that each other can discover your versatility and increase your attraction.

In short, it is very important for two people to chat after a blind date. If the other person can talk to you on his mobile phone all night, congratulations, you can confirm the relationship at any time.