On a blind date, I met a 23-year-old weird female teacher. She refreshed my understanding of "weird". What do you think?

It also refreshed my understanding. I think this kind of weird woman is a toad who wants to eat swan meat but doesn’t think she is a toad. She has simply insulted the teaching profession. What about teaching and educating people? Even she herself It’s really shameful to have the nerve to teach others when you haven’t learned well. I think there is nothing wrong with you wanting to find a better partner. Everyone wants to find a good partner, but the premise is that you yourself are not bad. If you earn three or four thousand a month, you want to find someone who earns ten or twenty thousand a month. After all, you still think that a man who earns 10,000 to 20,000 yuan a month is useless, why don’t you see yourself earning 10,000 to 20,000 yuan a month? If a man wants to find a woman with a pretty face, he will be called superficial, while if a woman wants to find a rich husband, she will take it for granted. This is too much of a double standard. No wonder there will be leftover women. If you don’t leave, who will be left? Summary of the incident:

A netizen revealed a chat record with a blind date on the Internet. The woman asked if she had a RV, if she had any debts, how much her monthly income was, and how tall she was. The man replied that he had a house. She has a car and no debt, a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan, and a height of 1.78 meters. It turns out that this woman dislikes the man's low monthly income and said she wants to find a man who is 1.8 meters tall. The man asked the woman about her conditions, and the woman replied that she had a monthly income of three to four thousand, worked as a teacher in a training institution, was 1.55 meters tall, had no savings and was in debt of ten to twenty thousand... After hearing this information, the man felt even more... It's weird. I originally thought that the request was so strict because the other party was also very good. I didn't expect that she was an extremely ordinary woman. She also had many demands and picky points. She simply imagined that she was too good. After that, The man directly rejected the woman, saying that they were not suitable, and this strange blind date ended. 01. If you look for someone who is excellent, you must be excellent too

I understand that every woman hopes to marry a good husband. After all, marrying a good husband is equivalent to being reincarnated for the second time. Not only does the husband have to be of good character, It is best to have good family conditions and good abilities. Everyone wants to find such a husband. The question is, are you worthy of it? Like the case above, if you are only 1.55 meters tall, you have to look for someone who is 1.8 meters tall, but you have the nerve to look for someone with a salary of 3,000 to 4,000 to 10,000 to 20,000 yuan. Do you think you have any hidden characteristics that can make others like you? Or do you think others are blind? The word "well-matched" is never just a talk. What kind of person should match what kind of person. Those silly and sweet people can be liked by domineering CEOs because they are beautiful. But if you have nothing, how can you let outstanding people look at you? What about you? Before looking for a partner, you might as well see what you have to offer, but don't daydream about it right away. 02. If you choose others, others will also choose you

The blind date market has always put all the conditions on the table and made them clear. This is a bit like the nature of a transaction. See if they are consistent with each other. Only when the hardware conditions are matched can the emotional aspect be considered. You put forward your requirements. The requirements are high, handsome and rich, and you must be motivated and responsible, and you must be romantic, considerate and gentle. Then the other party also wants to find a woman with good looks, body and brains. It is best to make money at the same time. While taking care of the home, what can you provide? There is nothing wrong with you in choosing others. Others who do not meet your requirements will be eliminated by you, but don’t forget that you are also a commodity in this transaction, a commodity that others can choose to match. If they do not match, you will naturally be eliminated.

In short, it’s bamboo door versus bamboo door, wooden door versus wooden door!