What should I do with a second-married man who is still in contact with his ex-wife

Now this social friend breaks up, marries and divorces too often! Seeing you ask questions like this, I know you don't want this to happen again. If you really care about him now and want to spend the next life with him, then you can do the following things: 1, face this matter frankly and tell him how you feel; 2. Understand the reasons for his divorce from his ex-wife, understand the advantages and disadvantages of his ex-wife, and learn from each other's strengths; 3, it is best not to be too obedient, appropriate independence, appropriate distance will make you more attractive; 4. Control your emotions. Too many complaints and accusations are not what men want. I hope my personal opinion helps.