How to avoid being a follower with dignity? (Recruitment is practical)

The bad habit of following the "members" is rampant and makes people want to stop. Anyone who doesn't accept the "members' money" feels disadvantaged, and whoever doesn't follow the "members' money" feels short-changed. This vicious cycle forms a deadlock, which not only becomes a heavy burden burden, and also poison the social atmosphere.

Have you ever encountered the same situation as me? On the third day after joining the company, I didn’t even see one of the more than 100 colleagues in the company, and he actually sent me Wedding invitation, inviting me to their wedding, do you think I should go or not at this time? Go ahead, it costs at least two hundred yuan, three days' salary is in vain, and I feel uncomfortable because I don't know him. Don’t go, the wedding invitations were all sent to the same company, it’s too much to save face! What will you do at this time?

You must be very worried! Haha, don’t worry, based on my long-term experience in society, I have compiled a unique set of “Tricks for Evading Fraudulent Money” to teach you how to avoid fraudulent money with dignity. Remember to keep it secret after reading this! ! !

Tips for escaping followers:

1. Traveling abroad (suitable for classmates and friends who don’t even send text messages except for marriage)

Receive text messages from classmates : "Mr. xxx and Ms. xxx got married on a certain day of a certain month of a certain year. You are welcome to visit." Don't panic at this time!

After an interval of six hours, he replied softly: "Okay, I will definitely attend on time!"

Wait two days before the wedding. It is time for you to take the stage. Tell your friend that you are very sorry that you are on a business trip. Bless the newlyweds and tell them that you can't attend. When you come back, don't mention it again.

2. When I tell you that you want to get married in person, don’t rush to confirm the time (suitable for unfamiliar colleagues and friends)

If you have a similar experience like me and meet a stranger Invite your colleagues to a wedding banquet when they get married. If your colleagues ask you: "Are you free on x, month x? I'm getting married." You can say: "I'm not sure, I'll see when the time comes. I'll try my best to make time to attend the wedding. I wish you all the best in advance." Happy wedding to you!" Then you can think about what you can do later. Since we are not familiar with each other, just don't go.

3. Discuss with your friends that you will not follow each other (suitable for friends who live in different places)

When I went to college in the Northeast, my roommates were basically from all over the world. We met when we graduated. If we got married, we would not follow each other. , but the blessing must come. Of course, if you want to have a wedding banquet in the past, you should welcome it as a friend, but you still can't pay red envelopes to join the party. But I guess not many people are as foresight as me!

4. Use gifts instead (suitable for classmates and friends with good or bad relationships)

Everyone knows how expensive it is to be a member now! Even the most casual ones have a starting price of 200, so it would be great to buy a gift! Although the gift may not cost much, the gift is light but the affection is heavy. Of course, if you are afraid that your friend will be unhappy, just send the gift in advance and not attend the wedding when you get married.

5. Don’t answer calls from friends who are getting married (suitable for pseudo-friends who just hide and run away when something happens)

Have you seen their wedding photos in Moments? Be careful at this time! A friend is getting married. If he calls you soon, he will definitely ask you to attend the wedding. At this time, you should think about it carefully. If you feel that your relationship is not good enough to go, don't answer the phone. You can pretend you don't know afterwards.

6. If you can’t lose face, put blessings in the red envelope (suitable for old classmates and old friends)

For those who really can’t escape, just write blessings on the red envelope. , or write a coupon to be deducted as a gift. Of course, the author believes that if you don’t plan to invite others to a wedding banquet when you get married, it doesn’t matter if you don’t follow the gift, there is no point in going back and forth.

7. Joining forces (suitable for gangs such as college dormitories, high school classmates, etc.)

You are definitely not the only one who has been hit by a red bomb, there are many others. If you and The other people are familiar with each other. Like you, we don’t want to follow the others, so let’s join together and put a part of the money into a red envelope, and then write down the entirety of your department.

8. Lost your mobile phone (suitable for friends and classmates who don’t want to date anymore)

I heard that my friend is getting married. Although we had a good relationship before, I feel that I will no longer have social contact in my future life. This What should I do when I receive a call? Call forwarding settings "Hello, the number you dialed has been turned off!" or "Hello, the number you dialed is temporarily unavailable, please call again later!" Afterwards, he said that his phone was stolen! My friends sympathize and don’t blame me.

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