Greetings from seven years of marriage.

Greetings from seven years of marriage.

Chapter 1: I think seven years of marriage is neither too long nor too short in a person's life. But seven years of marriage in a person's life can't be said to be short. In the past seven years, we have been growing up with help. We have been sad, noisy and angry. Think about it carefully, we have been happy, happy and moved. Perhaps the following summary is not profound enough, but I want to share it with you.

First, learn to be modest. Entering the marriage hall, just like sesame's life, trivial things keep coming, testing the endurance of both of us. If we put up with everything, we will be calm, but if we all lose our temper, we will be as fierce as a flood. Therefore, to live a life, we must learn to be modest, and this modesty is not just talk, but confirmed by practical actions. Modesty in marriage is not a sign of weakness, but the most sincere sign of love. You have been kowtowing to me for seven years, and I will encourage you in the following days.

Second, learn to respect. Zeng Guofan's family letter mentioned "cautious independence, respect for relatives, kindness and hard work", and so did marriage. Respect is powerful, but it is quiet and unified. Marriage is not about letting a person adapt or change each other. Marriage is two independent people living together tacitly and freely, respecting each other and learning from each other's strengths. Only in this way can the marriage last long. Fortunately, you are not dissatisfied with my appearance, figure and habits, so I just talk about losing weight.

Third, learn to "like". Learning to praise can make the relationship between husband and wife particularly harmonious, because people are willing to accept praise psychologically. Please satisfy my little vanity, sometimes I feel naive. Let's boil it down to the little girl's love.

Longing for it. See my subtle changes, observe the changes in details I have made for you, praise and affirm my efforts, so that I will feel that everything is worth it. Of course, we should criticize what is wrong, but don't use the tone of accusation. We should also pay attention to the ways and means of expressing good wishes.

These seven years are hard-won, all the way hard, accumulating feelings and flowing the warmth of a lifetime. Because without you, there would be no marriage and no happy life. Today is the seventh anniversary of our marriage, so I want to say thank you to my lover who has been married for seven years with a grateful heart! Thank you for helping me into the marriage hall and having a home that belongs to us; Thank you for giving me a lovely and sensible daughter-the continuation of our life, which is the most indispensable thing in the family; Thank you, we helped our peers all the way and tasted the ups and downs of life. You didn't leave me, and I didn't leave you, no matter how hard it was; Thank you for sharing joys and sorrows with me. In these seven years, only I know how much you have suffered for our small family and how much responsibility you should bear as a daughter, wife and mother. Only you will not dislike my willfulness, stubbornness, importunities and unreasonable troubles, because you love you and I love me; Thank you, for the happiness of our family, work hard, contribute silently, and have no regrets! Thank you ... for being married for seven years, and slowly moving towards simplicity and plain. As long as we always have the same persistence in our hearts as eight years ago, I hope our marriage will be equally happy in the next seven, twenty-seven and thirty-seven years!

Article 2: Write it in the seventh year of marriage. 201kloc-0/lunar calendar 165438+ the eighth day of October is my seventh wedding anniversary.

Seven years ago, my husband and I got married in the rain. It also rained lightly today. God seems to remind me of this day on purpose. Since we got married, our anniversary has been forgotten. Just this year, I think, my husband thinks, because it's seven years, or because we all have some ideas in our hearts, maybe it's providence-so I had an idea to write a paragraph to commemorate our seven years of marriage.

On that day seven years ago, we were in the rain, listening to the blessing of witnesses, and our cheeks were full of pure sweetness. We have never thought about the difficulties in the future, whether we will quarrel over trifles, whether our lives will be divided, whether our parents are healthy, how we will get along with our elders, what kind of children we will have in the future and the future of our children, whether we will have a car, whether we will have a decent life ... all we care about is whether we love each other deeply.

Today, seven years later, I want to say that marriage is the real beginning of two people. I don't know when (ha, there is no historical record), they no longer hide anything from each other, and they are used to showing their bad habits to each other without stint, and slowly and quietly taking back their good conduct. Interestingly, my heart thinks that only in this way can I be worthy of him and my heart. He gradually became my punching bag, the object of my venting, and we began to think that we knew very well. We began to be cynical, and I became a nagging woman. In a flash, I will become an angry tigress (now, I feel ridiculous).

Things are still going on. Today, I found that we all have some changes. There seems to be a lot less waste gas in my heart, but there are more real things in it, such as how to educate children, how to make children physically and mentally healthy, how to protect themselves, how to arrange three meals a day, and how to make the atmosphere at home harmonious ... We began to trust each other again, give each other a space of our own, improve our homework, and we also began to exchange some views, as if this was a real beginning.

Chapter 3: Men who have been married for seven years summarize 36 articles, and men who have been married for seven years summarize 36 articles.

1. To gain the trust of the other party, it is necessary to make the whereabouts, friends and colleagues of the other party transparent. (We all did a good job)

2. In front of the woman you love, the meaner you are, the happier you are!

3. After the quarrel, you can exchange roles and repeat what you just quarreled, so as to ensure that you are laughing! I think this is very useful, haha, try it next time.

4. Be sure to wear the wedding ring on the ring finger of your left hand after marriage! Wearing a wedding ring clearly shows your marital status and your firm attitude of rejecting foreign temptations.

5. When two people go out to eat together, and they are embarrassed to clip their favorite dishes too many times, they can clip them for each other.

6. Often attend friends' parties of the other half. This can expand the circle of communication and add many topics of common interest.

7. When you are alone, you always talk about the other half.

8. From a long time ago, "we" appeared more in conversations than "I".

9. No matter how busy a man is at work, he has to undertake some housework, which is his responsibility to his family. Like me, I am responsible for washing dishes, washing clothes, taking out garbage, locking doors, taking newspapers, and many temporary tasks, most of which are looking for things. Many people hate washing dishes, but I especially like washing dishes. It's a great sense of accomplishment to watch a pile of greasy dirty bowls being washed away gradually.

10, quietly change the direction of her slippers when she takes a shower, and squeeze toothpaste and pour mouthwash when she wants to brush her teeth. Although some daily life is very small, it can always make her feel warm and caring.

1 1. When chatting with colleagues and friends (especially the opposite sex), you will always talk to the other half and experience the fact that you can be insulated from peach blossoms.

12, if you have time, you might as well take part in the other half's work, such as helping to find information and organize things on the Internet. On the one hand, two people can cooperate to do some things, on the other hand, knowing the other half's work can increase many topics.

13, there is no need for privacy between husband and wife! Our email address and Ali Wangwang's password are mutually known. Sometimes it is convenient to send and receive emails, and we often borrow each other's mobile phones. My heart is open, what can't I tell each other?

14, the passenger seat is the wife's exclusive seat. Unless the wife agrees, other members of the opposite sex can only sit in the back row.

15, chatting with friends, came to a conclusion that women like to set many rules at home. For example, what is the responsibility of each towel; Be sure to wipe off the water after taking a shower; Be sure to cover the toilet lid after going to the toilet. . . If you don't comply,

Will say, "How many times have I told you? ! Why XXX? "

16. As a man, you should have such awareness. If the arrangement changes, such as you have to work overtime or have a temporary appointment, be sure to call and report.

17. If there are any interesting conversations or things between two people, you might as well record them. Over time, turn them out every six months or a year to watch them together and relive the happy time. It was fun.

18. I listened to the radio when I was stuck in the north-south elevated road yesterday. The theme is apology. A listener wrote that every time she was angry, her husband pretended to be uncomfortable, which made her sick, and then her husband apologized and her anger subsided. I can't help laughing. I have done this kind of thing before, and it is very effective. But you can't use it more.

19, a single woman should not complain about why she can't always find a mature and considerate man. Men should be trained. There may be men who are naturally considerate, responsible and considerate, but that is very few, and the chance of being discovered by you is very small. Most men, like me, are brainless. My wife taught me when I was in love. So you might as well broaden your horizons and find a material that can be made to start training.

20. I was misled by TV movies since I was a child. I think if the hero's career fails, it is a very responsible and self-sacrificing performance to break up for fear of delaying the outstanding heroine. No! No! No! It is selfish to sacrifice love for your career. Isn't it clearly written in the wedding vows? Whether you are rich or poor, whether you are sick or healthy, you should stay together, so that your feelings can stand the test. If you really have a successful career, will people who like you love you or your wealth and status?

2 1. Sometimes when chatting, I do something for her. She said, "Thank you, dear." I immediately became alert and suspected that my wife's account had been stolen. I immediately asked, "Are you really XX?" The wife suddenly became angry: "Get out!" I'm relieved.

22. Be a woman with a lifestyle. The mood of life is not just dressing up, but lighting incense at home. Is to be able to constantly discover new pleasures in life and share and infect people around you. My wife can always find pleasure in life, such as new good restaurants and cafes, flower arrangement, decoration, travel, looking for good books and making new friends. Keep our life fresh at all times.

It is a good habit to kiss my wife goodbye before going out to work every day (I used to go out earlier than her, but now she goes out earlier than me).

24. Introduce a small game played by two people. There is only a pen and a piece of paper. Draw things in turn and let the other person guess what it is, but explain the scope of the guessed things, whether it is idioms, names, places or events. Don't worry about your poor drawing level, it has nothing to do with drawing level, but with associative ability. It's fun to play when you are bored (by train or plane, or at home at ordinary times)! (We can't play this, our painting level is too poor, hahaha)

25, men should not think that silence is cool, it is better for two people to communicate more together. Don't put any thoughts or opinions about each other in your stomach. If you say it, the other person will know, and then you will have a chance to improve. A sulking life will only get angrier and angrier, and watching the other person's unconscious appearance will not help solve the problem.

26. Falling in love, including getting married, takes a long time to run in. From living habits to ways of doing things, you have temper and personality, which need to be adjusted slowly. This running-in process will be accompanied by countless quarrels and tears, but the later this process, the less distress and the stronger happiness. We have been in love for three years, married for seven years, and the first seven years may be regarded as the running-in period. Up to now, there is still a little friction occasionally, but the overall feeling is still very happy. Therefore, in love and marriage, as long as it is not a big matter of principle, don't break up easily because of small quarrels, be patient, and the good days are yet to come! Speaking of quarreling before, it was often late at night, because the lights were turned off, and in the dark, the spirit would concentrate on what had just happened. But I am a person who falls asleep easily when touching a pillow. It is often when my wife is angry and accounts with me that she suddenly hears my sweet snoring coming from the side. That's anger! She would lean in my ear and shout, "Go to sleep!" (This is very similar to us, hahaha ~ I am still often angry, waiting for him to coax me, and hearing people snoring like thunder, which is quite depressing. )

27. Introduce a way for a man to apologize. Before I made a mistake, I would only say "I'm sorry", "I was wrong" and "forgive me" repeatedly. My wife is very dissatisfied. Later, she taught me to apologize in three steps: the first step is to state the facts, what mistakes I made today; The second step is to explain why you made this mistake; The third step, corrective measures, what measures will be taken in the future to ensure that the same mistakes will not be made again. The experiment has been done many times and the effect is good.

28. I remember reading a foreign survey before. One of the family responsibilities that a wife most wants her husband to undertake is to "check the strange sounds coming from home at night". I feel the same way.

29. The most precious thing between husband and wife is trust. It is not an exaggeration to say that trust is "the treasure of the town house". Once one party betrayed, even if the other party later forgave and reconciled, the trust would be greatly reduced. Suspicion, anxiety and paranoia will begin to appear between two people. To gain each other's trust, we must not play ambiguous and disappear, and we must make each other's whereabouts, friends and colleagues transparent. (We all did a good job)

30. Look at things optimistically, encounter unlucky things, and be normal. When the mobile phone was stolen, I thought it would be good to change it. My wallet was stolen, and I want to break the bank. When I caught a cold, I thought I could rest for two days. When you encounter traffic jams, you can just think about your heart, listen to the radio and scold the DJ; When the company closed down and was laid off, I thought I could finally start a business and do what I like. When starting a business is not smooth, I feel that the previous 30 years have been too smooth, and the life with a little ups and downs is wonderful. The happiness of children depends on the happiness of parents. For the sake of children, the two should also strive to create a happy family!

3 1, I like two people to travel short distances by car, because on the road, in a closed space, I can't watch TV and do housework, so I will naturally start chatting. There is nothing to talk about. There is a lot to talk about what you saw on the road. Novices who drive indiscriminately on the road, strange license plates, cars that are rarely seen, slogans posted on the butt of the car in front, plush toys in the back seat, and drivers who see the nose excrement in the car behind them in the rearview mirror will all talk. You can also turn on the radio, listen to the DJ talking nonsense there and guess what constellation blood type he/she is.

3 1, these two days are not going well. My wife and I are going to burn incense in the temple. Before, I was educated in atheism and didn't believe in religion at all. I didn't touch religious books. I have seen a lot in recent years, and I feel superstitious before. If you want to criticize something, you have to understand it before you can qualify. After contact with some Buddhist books, I feel that Buddhism is not so much a religion as a state of mind and a belief, which teaches you to look down on the ups and downs of life. When praying sincerely, firm confidence can also help you achieve your wish. To accomplish one thing, the most important thing is to have confidence and persist, isn't it?

32. Here is a game that two people can play. No props are needed. Think of the name of someone you both know in your mind, and then let the other person ask questions to guess. The question can only be "yes" or "no". Like a man? be

Are you from China? Are you in the entertainment circle? Take turns guessing and see who guesses the least questions. We have been playing this game, and the effect is very good.

33. My wife likes drinking red wine. I think women can drink some red wine properly. First, it is good for health and cardiovascular system, and drinking a little before going to bed will also help you fall asleep; Second, you can go to beauty salons; Third, a woman who knows a little red wine will make people sit up and take notice;

Fourth, there are many pastimes at ordinary times, and the two can often go to bars to listen to music; Fifth, add a woman's hearty temperament.

34. When I first fell in love, my wife had to listen to my story every night to fall asleep. I was quite proud at first, but then my wife said to me, "Your story is boring, and I will fall asleep soon. If the story is wonderful, you can't sleep. " (Cute, hehe)

My deepest memory of my wife is that one night, the water pipe in my toilet burst, and I was at a loss as to whether to turn off the tap or the main brake. The wife in pajamas choked and rushed into the toilet with a mop. At that moment, there was only one thought in my mind: "If you marry a wife, you must marry such a woman."

36. It is not a big problem that two people have different personalities, hobbies and living habits. They can adjust to each other slowly, but whether the values in the general direction are consistent or not determines whether the marriage can be happy and long-lasting. What is the moral bottom line you can accept? What can you sacrifice for your career? What can you sacrifice for your family? These need not be discussed formally, but can be seen through daily observation.

37. "Marriage is the grave of love." This sentence is for people who are not good at managing marriage. If two people water the flower of love with their heart, it can grow into a towering tree, which not only makes them happy, but also brings happiness to the people around them.

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