What do the family members of a girl who is suspected of going to meet her boyfriend do when he loses contact in Malaysia?

Sichuan girl lost contact with Malaysia for 13 days: She was suspected of visiting her boyfriend, and her family asked the embassy for help.

Before the Spring Festival, Lingling (pseudonym), a 25-year-old girl from Mianzhu, Deyang, Sichuan, traveled thousands of miles to Malaysia to meet her boyfriend. After the Spring Festival, her phone was turned off. Family and friends have been trying to get in touch with him through phone calls and WeChat, but there has been no word from him. The family has become anxious.

"Since February 22, her mobile phone has been turned off. I don't know where she has gone. Her family is very worried and has called the police." On the morning of March 6, Lingling's cousin Luo The husband said that in addition to calling the police in Deyang, they had already sent a letter of help to the Chinese Embassy in Malaysia. Lingling's mother, Ms. Wang, is going through the procedures to go abroad and is preparing to go to Malaysia to seek help.

After posting this to Moments, Lingling lost contact?

Help: Mianzhu girl lost contact in Malaysia

On the evening of March 3, a message asking for help The information spread on Mianzhu’s local Weibo and WeChat.

“My friend’s sister has been alone in Malaysia for almost half a month and has been missing for almost half a month.” Netizen “Lemon Buju is cute for help” said that the girl went to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia alone on February 7, and on February 22 The phone has been turned off and the network cannot be contacted.

On March 4, the reporter got in touch with Lingling’s mother, Ms. Wang, who confirmed that her daughter was missing in Malaysia.

After packing her luggage on February 7, Lingling took a flight from Chengdu at around 15:00 that afternoon and headed to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia alone.

In the following time, she maintained contact with her daughter on WeChat. During this period, Lingling posted a video of making omelettes on WeChat Moments. On the second day of the Lunar New Year, when the whole family was celebrating the New Year, her daughter also sent a WeChat video to express New Year greetings to her family.

On February 22, the mother and daughter last contacted each other.

The chat history between the two shows: At 23:18 on the 21st, Ms. Wang sent a message asking her daughter, "How are you doing in Malaysia?" In the early morning of the 22nd, Lingling briefly said on WeChat: " Don’t worry about me!” After that, Ms. Wang contacted her daughter on WeChat, but failed to receive a reply, and her daughter’s phone was always turned off. "Sent text messages and WeChat messages, but there has been no reply."

In addition, according to a relative and friend of Lingling, she sent a WeChat message to Lingling on the 24th, but Lingling did not reply and the phone was still turned off. state.

Lingling’s Moments show that in the early morning of the 22nd, after replying to her mother, Ms. Wang, on WeChat, Lingling posted her last Moments at 5:50 a.m.

Lingling wrote: "The most helpless thing is to think about other people's things before going to bed, and worry about things that have nothing to do with you when you wake up. If you think it's all someone else's fault, calm down. Think about it, it's actually because of your own choice. You could have chosen not to care so much about it, but you chose to spend time here and stay away from unpleasant things." Judging from this message, Ling said. Ling was worried about something. What are you worried about? Is it related to her loss of contact? Lingling's mother didn't know. A reporter from Chengdu Commercial Daily tried to call Lingling’s mobile phone several times, but it was always turned off.

The chat records between Lingling and her best friend show that her boyfriend is also in Kuala Lumpur?

Relatives and friends speculated: She may have gone to see her boyfriend

February 7 The Spring Festival is approaching, why does Lingling still want to go to Malaysia alone? Relatives and friends speculated that Lingling might go to meet her boyfriend.

According to the information provided by Ms. Wang, Lingling returned home from Malaysia just a month ago.

Ms. Wang recalled that Lingling told her that she had booked a flight to Malaysia and asked her if she was going to meet her boyfriend. "She didn't admit it, but she didn't deny it either. She just smiled and said she wasn't necessarily her boyfriend yet."

And this is what Ms. Wang is worried about, because she doesn't know Lingling's boyfriend at all. specific information. I only know that this man is from Fuzhou, about 1.7 meters tall, and works in Malaysia. Ms. Wang said that her daughter did not take the initiative to tell her about her boyfriend. It was because she heard something during their video call that she suspected that her daughter had recently had a boyfriend. In addition, before Lingling went abroad, the man also purchased takeout online and sent pizza and flowers to Lingling. However, when Ms. Wang asked, Lingling replied: They are not boyfriend and girlfriend.

However, from the conversation between the two sent by Lingling’s friend Xiao Fan, it can be seen that Lingling has known this Fuzhou man for more than a year, and this man followed his brother on business in Malaysia. The man treats her very well, and the relationship between them has always been good. They often order takeaways from each other through the Internet. They are considered boyfriends, but the two have not yet confirmed their relationship.

A request for help posted by family members on the Internet?

As for how Ling Ling and this man met? Lingling did not take the initiative to inform, and Lingling's family and friends did not know the specific situation. Everyone only knew that Lingling met a Fuzhou man who worked in Malaysia.

"It may be developing. We have never seen that man, and we don't know his name." Lingling's cousin Mr. Luo introduced. In Mr. Luo's view, his cousin may not have gone to Malaysia just for her boyfriend.

“Since 2016, she has been going to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, about two or three times a year.” Mr. Luo introduced that his cousin is doing micro-business. She has people she knows in Malaysia and sometimes brings domestic goods. past. In addition, Ling Ling was somewhat resistant to the family's push for marriage. Ling Ling had expressed more than once that she did not want to spend the New Year at home. So in his opinion, he probably wanted to go out this time to start a career and escape the pressure of getting married during the Chinese New Year.

Mr. Luo said that he and his cousin grew up together, and he also understands his cousin’s character and some ideas. His cousin has her own opinions. My cousin wanted to change her life through her own efforts. At that time, she started to make some investments through her friends, but it didn't seem to go well and she lost a lot of money. She even complained to him that the money she lost could be used to buy a house in Chengdu. Down payment made. In the past two years, Lingling began to travel abroad frequently, going to Macau, Hong Kong and other places. Among them, she went to Malaysia the most, and the longest time she stayed there was two or three months at a time. "My cousin said she wants to start a business in Malaysia, and there are friends there who can help her." As for how his cousin got to know people in Malaysia, Mr. Luo said he didn't know.

The family has asked the embassy in Malaysia and the police for help

At 21:00 on February 7, Lingling told her friend Tiantian (pseudonym) that she was in Malaysia.

According to the chat record, when Tiantian asked her when she would return to China, Lingling was a little irritated and said: Don't ask her when she will return. She gets dizzy when she hears such a question. Lingling also said in WeChat that she was forced by life and not like what her friends thought.

On February 24, Tiantian contacted Lingling on WeChat, but received no reply all day long, and the phone she made was also turned off. On February 26, Ms. Wang contacted Lingling via WeChat but received no response. The latest update of its circle of friends was on February 22. Family members speculate that Lingling may have been out of contact since the 22nd.

According to the entry-exit management inquiry of the public security organ, Lingling did leave the country for Malaysia on February 7. However, it is impossible to check whether he later left Malaysia and where he went. However, Mr. Luo believes that his cousin must still be in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, because this is the only place she is familiar with. Although she has pressure from family and society, she has always worked hard, so she will not want to escape from her family. "Even if she wants to escape, she will tell me."

Currently, Ms. Wang Mr. He Luo has reported the case to the police in Mianzhu and Deyang. The Mianzhu police provided his family with the contact information of the Chinese Embassy in Malaysia and assisted his family in sorting and faxing relevant information.

On the afternoon of the 5th, the Longquanshan Road Police Station of Deyang Public Security Bureau conducted a DNA collection on Ms. Wang. On the other hand, Mr. Luo also sent a letter of assistance to the Chinese Embassy in Malaysia and contacted the Ministry of Foreign Affairs by phone on the afternoon of March 5 to seek help. "I also called the local police in Kuala Lumpur to report the case, but I never got through." Mr. Luo said that he would continue to contact the embassy and the local police, hoping to find his cousin as soon as possible.

On the afternoon of March 5, Mr. Luo received news from the Chinese Embassy in Malaysia. According to the requirements of the local police, he could not call the police over the phone. He could only entrust a friend to report to the local police station in Malaysia.

On the morning of the 6th, we learned that Lingling’s mother, Ms. Wang, was going through the procedures to go abroad and was preparing to go to Malaysia to seek help.