Is there a difference between calling and sending messages between lovers?

Generally speaking, there are differences. You can know the tone of the other party by calling, and you can immediately know what the other party is feeling. You can know happiness and anger, but you don't have to send messages. Sometimes you need to think clearly. So sometimes it's best to make a phone call if you have something important to discuss, and you can send a message if you chat normally.

However, if couples don't get along for a long time, sending messages is the best choice. The reason is simple and not embarrassing. Even if there is a short silence caused by a topic, they can think about their speech slowly through time, but making a phone call is different. First of all, if they don't know and are unfamiliar with each other on a phone, they will often be silent for various reasons such as nervousness, which will bring embarrassment to both sides, so they will send messages to get to know each other slowly.