Have you ever encountered a situation where a friend borrowed money and then refused to answer his phone or WeChat message when trying to repay the money?

Answer: This is definitely the case.

My nephew owes me 18,000 yuan. For several years, I have not asked him for the money because I am not in a hurry. Every time I meet him, he takes the initiative to mention it and says, "You need it." I will give it to you when the time comes, but now I have no money. I didn't care, I just said that when I need money, you just give it to me.

Last year I bought a house for my son and called him to mention the money. He said he would give it to me during the Spring Festival. During the Spring Festival, we are encountering an epidemic. After the holidays, my son and I couldn't go out to work, and we had no money to pay off the mortgage. We had no choice but to call him to ask for money. He replied that he was going to set up a factory and would give me some money for emergencies, and asked me how much the monthly mortgage would be. ? I said four or five thousand. Then I waited for him to send me the money. Nothing happened anymore. I called him the next day, and he stopped answering my calls. I sent him WeChat messages and text messages, but he didn’t reply. Later, he went to Zhejiang and didn’t meet anyone.

I just thought that you can't hide from me forever. When we meet, will you take the initiative to pay me back, or will you meet me shamelessly and say something to me? I don't know what it will be like when we meet again.

For people who don’t answer the phone or reply on WeChat when asking for repayment after borrowing money from a friend, I just want to say that people have face and trees have bark. You must be honest as a person. When people lend you money, they trust you and help you. Can you give up your face for that little money and become an ungrateful villain and look down upon others? If you don’t answer the phone or respond to WeChat messages, you can guarantee that we will never see each other again in this life. How will you face the person who lent you money and helped you?

Everyone will inevitably have difficulties, and it often happens that they ask someone to borrow money to help them tide over the difficulties. As the saying goes, "If you borrow something, you have to repay it. It's not difficult to borrow again." "If you have money, you have to pay it back."

I have also been through difficulties, and I have also asked people to borrow money. But I will always find ways to pay back the money as much as possible. When I don’t have money to pay someone back, I don’t passively avoid it, but face it actively. Take the initiative to meet with creditors, ask for grace, and pay them back as soon as you have money. So I have a good reputation in our village and everyone trusts me. Whenever I borrow money from others, others will lend me money. My relatives all know that I am an honest and honest person. They took the initiative to come to me and tell me if they had any difficulties, they would like to lend me money. So my son bought a house last year, and I quickly raised the down payment for him. It wasn’t very difficult. Someone was willing to help me.

Therefore, for those friends who borrow money, there is no need not to answer the creditor’s phone calls or reply to their WeChat messages if you have no money, unless you are deliberately not prepared to repay, intend to default on the debt, and be a shameless person , prepare to stop meeting people. If you are preparing to repay the money, when someone calls you or sends you a WeChat message asking you to repay the money, you should show your sincerity in repaying the money when you have no money to repay. It is not that you don’t want to repay, but that you really are unable to repay. According to your actual situation , seek grace, and promise people a time to pay back the money. If others feel your sincerity, they will agree to your request, help people to the end, and will not force you to pay back the money. Others will also value feelings and be reasonable, and will not force you to pay back the money unreasonably. Others also understand that it’s useless to force you if you don’t have money, so when you don’t have money to pay back, you should give people a good answer. Achieve "pay back money when you have money, talk to someone when you don't have money". For those who deliberately borrow money and refuse to repay it, do not answer the phone or reply to WeChat messages, there is really no good way to get the money. You can only ask for it when you meet. People always want face. People are afraid of being in person. It depends on what he says when you meet. No matter how strong you are when the time comes, you must get it without leaving him any sympathy. Of course, I'm just afraid of meeting a really shameless and scoundrel person who will act like a dead pig and won't be scalded by boiling water, but won't pay back the money. If the amount is small, send him away as a beggar. If the amount is large and there is evidence, court resolution may be sought. Without evidence, there is really no way.

The two people who owe me money didn’t even respond to my calls. I regret that I should have been a good person and helped them pay off their rent and credit cards. I guess they really don’t have money, so it’s hard to be a good person.

Of course, when you borrow money, you have to look at other people's faces, and when you pay back the money, you have to look at other people's faces.

Yes.

Money is something external to the body, but for money a person can sell all his family, love and friendship. I have experienced all these, and none of the above three points have not been experienced. Although I have no money, but now I think I'm very open-minded. In fact, everyone is the same. You have to think in other people's shoes. Who doesn't want to ask someone for help when they are in trouble? It's just how they will treat you after they go through the difficulties.