People who have extramarital affairs don't answer their phones or return text messages.

First of all, you shouldn't be the lover of a married man. It is irresponsible for a man to have an affair, and the responsibility will not move from home to outside. Most of these relationships don't last. In this case, you shouldn't borrow money from him in the first place. It's too self-esteem. If he doesn't want to lend you money and wants to terminate the relationship, then he is not sincere to you for a day, so don't contact again. Be a woman, not a man's lover