After my wife quarreled with me, she confided to her ex-boyfriend and sent a text message. I saw that she was unhappy in Shanghai now. I asked her, and she said it was just an ex-boyfriend

I am the wife of the questioner. It's been more than half a month, and my husband has been upset. I also understand that I shouldn't have contacted my ex-boyfriend in the first place. The first time, I was really sad because of the quarrel, but I didn't have any friends in Shanghai. The only sister I knew was at work at that time, which was inconvenient, but my friends in my hometown really didn't want to tell them these things, because they felt far away and people didn't want to hear them. I don't want to tell my parents and brother for fear that they will worry. I sent a message for the second time. I just want to thank him for listening as a bystander during the last quarrel. I want to tell him that my husband and I have made up and are very happy. My husband and I will be happy all our lives, and we will never contact our ex-boyfriend no matter what unhappy things we encounter in the future. I really didn't mean to delete it. I didn't expect to delete it two days later. He was angry and thought I was still thinking about my ex-boyfriend, but I really wasn't. I really just think that my current boyfriend is a stranger, and I can recite my ex-boyfriend's number, because this person's number has never changed. My husband kept asking me why I didn't ask my ex-boyfriend for the 50 thousand yuan he owed. At first, I really didn't want to get involved with the previous one, and I didn't want to contact him at all. I just want to get rid of the money. From our love to marriage, including now, I only loved. You are better than your ex-boyfriend. You think of me everywhere in your life and work. I'm so touched. Before I can say thank you, you are going to divorce me, husband. I really hope that we can spend this unhappy period together and grow old together! If I can, I hope that time can be reversed once, and I won't make such a mistake.