What if the predecessor doesn't reply to the message during the recovery process? What points should I remember?

What if the predecessor doesn't reply to the message during the recovery process? What points should I remember? 1, according to its meaning, it means that starting from the personal hobbies that the other person is interested in, it can quickly generate a buzz and make the other person want to participate in your topic discussion. For example, the other person likes to watch a certain kind of books or movies, so you can strongly recommend the specific content of the corresponding theme to the other person or share your work experience; Or the other person likes to play some, then you can say that a character (the other person likes it) has recently developed super powers, and you want to play, but a novice, ask for help ... instead, share some areas that the other person is not good at, and the other person will not be able to get in a word, let alone want to respond.

2. The reason for existence One reason for existence is to get to know each other under the pretext of everyone's previous experiences, gifts, clothes, pants and daily necessities. Don't use "are you there" to gradually discuss the topic. . If you are in a hurry, say something, or the other person will think you are pestering again. For example, we usually get "Are you there?" We also doubt the motives of others, especially those we haven't contacted for a long time. Most of them are not easy to respond, just say what you want to say or ask. For example: "Recently, the company prepared for team expansion in advance, and my friend told me that I strongly recommend a hotel. I still remember that there is a restaurant in X, and this dish is delicious. Remember the name? " "What you gave me before is broken. Which store have you been buying? I want to finish it. " All kinds of problems are closely related to each other, and only the other party can help you. Even if the other party doubts your intention to contact the other party, it is only doubt. As long as you don't entangle and don't mention emotions, you won't encourage hatred.

3. Create an anchor with good memories together. Common memory refers to the beautiful and most impressive things that everyone has worked hard to experience together, so as to arouse the yearning for a happy time. When chatting, the main thing is to show that you just mention it casually, so don't worry too much. Don't go too far, grow old together, or you will expose your sense of demand. For example, I went to play with my friends (same-sex friends) yesterday (if I was separated because I liked playing, I would say that I was off work), and I passed a restaurant (where I used to go or date for the first time) and found new dishes. It's really good. How have you been recently?

4. Discuss the topic from the income level. The longer you spend together, the greater the related rights and interests, because your life and work have been completely tied together, such as * * * * assets, houses, vehicles, children and small pets. And the bigger the related things, the more obvious the feeling, and it will be difficult to separate them. Because the two places are really separated, the other side will have asset losses. In the communication link, the other party showed concern, indicating that they still don't want to give up in terms of rights and interests. At this time, you can take the initiative to give girls a step and let them turn around. No matter what the real reason is, as long as the other party turns back, there is still hope. As long as you are good enough and meaningful, you can attract its attention again and make the other person fall in love with you again. No matter what topic you discuss, the other person is unwilling to reply to you. You should rethink yourself. What causes the other party to be so vigilant? Because you don't meet each other's spiritual needs in intimate relationships, or your own value is too low.

Sometimes we are used to dealing with problems in the most comfortable way, but the other party doesn't necessarily pay. Moreover, everyone's behavior logic, spiritual needs, lifestyle and mentality are different. What you think of as "right" and "good to each other" are just your thoughts, not what the other person really wants. You ignore each other's inner thoughts and opinions. Therefore, when the other party is unwilling to reply to the information, it is necessary to find out the real reason that caused the other party's defensive psychology to start in time, and you should correct it in time. Only when the other person feels your change can the other person notice you and give you a chance. But the two preconditions of revenge alliance are: 1. Change the status quo; 2. The other party takes the initiative to tease you twice. If you don't reach any of them, what you have to do now is not to think about how to win a successful revenge alliance, but to improve yourself.