How to politely refuse others' confession

Everyone has the right to love and not to love, so when you don't feel attached to a suitor, it is undoubtedly a choice to reject the confession of the other person immediately. The lover is innocent, but the mistake is not to meet the right person. It is a compulsory course for many people who are still in the emotional ignorance period.

I still remember that when I was a teenager, there were many suitors around me, but I always felt that being immersed in love with my children was not suitable for me. The way to refuse others can be described in four words-simple and rude, which made me feel bad, and others didn't like to take me to play. One thing that impressed me the most was that when a friend who hit it off with me (I always regarded each other as a buddy) sincerely confessed to me, I was devastated by a burst of shelling. From then on, I was regarded as a passer-by. After many years, the other party refused to forgive me. At that time, I thought I was offended. Now that I think about it, my expression is really rude. No wonder I can't even be a friend.

So, how to politely refuse others' confession? With the experience of a n experienced person, I want to give some advice to my family. Let's take a look at the following aspects.

1 Have a correct attitude and behave like a gentleman

If you don't like someone, don't give them any hope. If you don't stop, you will suffer from it. Maybe your careless move and flashing eyes will inadvertently leave room for the other person's imagination, and he or she will infinitely enlarge this possibility and think that you are pretending to be reserved and playing hard to get. Therefore, please be a gentleman when refusing others' confession. No one will misunderstand a polite person, even if the ending is sloppy.

2 Choose the handling method carefully

In modern society, there are a lot of social software, which is really not too friendly for people who are afraid of society. If you're worried that you can't get the scene out of control, it's absolutely fine to send it back and forth through WeChat, qq, etc. Don't entrust a third person to convey it, don't accidentally hurt others' self-esteem, and keep things to a minimum. Others are also proud, right?

3 self-belittling, raising the other side

Rejecting others' confession is actually hurting others' self-esteem, especially for some people who can't hold on to their feelings. Therefore, when refusing others' confession, we have to belittle ourselves and raise the other side. It is best to let the other side feel that being rejected is not unacceptable, and then let it go without resentment.

4 Choose the right time

To put it bluntly, everything is based on taking care of each other's feelings, reducing the dimension of attack, and not directly embarrassing each other in public. However, some people like to pursue a sense of ceremony and make a public confession. In fact, this in itself is suspected of moral kidnapping, because he doesn't consider the position and thoughts of the parties at all. At this time, the performance of the pursued person should be as low-key as possible, and he can't leave directly and passively cooperate. Afterwards, he sincerely apologizes to the other party and shows his true thoughts. I believe that the other party will understand your painstaking efforts.

The above are some general strategies for euphemistically refusing others' confession. Next, I will provide you with some words for euphemistically refusing others' confession: Thank you for liking me, and I like myself very much. Friends last, don't they? I think your tenderness is more suitable for other girls. It's very kind of you, but I'm sorry that I can't listen to it in detail. How can you talk about being immersed in love with your children before your studies are completed? You already have someone you like, and you deserve better. I'll introduce a good girl to you when I have a chance. I think you are quite good, you are particularly excellent, but I don't think I deserve you. I don't deserve your love, there are better people waiting for you! Thank you for your liking, but I still want to say sorry to you. I already have someone I like. I wish you a better one.

In short, whether you are pretending to be confused or talking to yourself, as long as you express your true thoughts clearly and let the other person give up the pursuit voluntarily, it will be OK.