Listen to others' success and dream your own dreams.

I know that there must be a group of people like me in this world, who may still be looking for their dreams in a daze, or who are still struggling to get up early and lust for the darkness, hoping that they can stand on the shining stage one day.

Maybe you wander around various communities all day, hoping to find your inspiration from those successful people; Maybe you have joined various learning societies and want to constantly improve yourself; Maybe you can analyze thousands of reasons why others succeed, but so far, like me, it seems that I am still standing still.

When I stepped into the door of my thirties, I suddenly became restless all day. Looking at the excellent classmates and friends around me, I suddenly feel that I really have accomplished nothing. It will still give birth to a feeling of powerlessness. It's like climbing stairs with a 200-pound refrigerator that you just bought for 5000 yuan. It makes you feel angry that you can't afford it anymore, but you can't bear to throw it away.

So, I fell into a strange circle, reluctantly went to work every day, and then went home at night to start all kinds of "thinking" and "reflecting" on my own failures and feel the success of others. So day after day, a vicious circle.

Until recently, I was lucky enough to participate in the training camp of Insisting on the Planet, and I got in touch with a group of positive energy friends and a group of "diaosi counterattack" big coffees: Insisting on the founder of the Planet, Long Xiong, and persisting for 9 months to achieve 500,000 fans. A cat, a time management expert Shi Gongzi, and a mind mapping expert Zhou Wei? Seeing their continuous efforts, an experience of "diaosi" counterattack suddenly ignited my inner flame.

We found that they had the same experience as us, but they walked out of the confused area before us. There are many reasons for success in the world, Qian Qian, but not all of them are suitable for them. From them, I see that there is no shortcut to success, only one word is "dry".

Before you start "doing", you must find your own goals and directions. We usually see a lot of chicken soup for the soul, which teaches us how to stick to our dreams and how to realize them. But he will never tell you where your road is, because he can't tell you either. Only you know where to go.

First, determine the direction and find your own goal. What is a dream? If not, how can we persist? Where do you insist? Time is limited. If you make a mistake, you will never get a second chance. Be sure to find the right direction before you start. There is a saying that choice is more important than hard work. I deeply understand the meaning of this sentence. I graduated from a key university on 2 1 1. Although the school is not particularly well-known 4-5K, I was still excellent in my student days. I have held several positions as student cadres, won many awards and obtained the opportunity to study in the United States at public expense. Supposedly, I should be a good student, but after graduation, I only found a salary and salary sales job of 900 yuan (and the company closed down a year later), and the salaries of my classmates were all. Although I am now the head of a small company, look at my classmates (compared with those who started with me, I am comparable). Others hold high positions in multinational corporations, large state-owned enterprises and government agencies. Later, I asked a classmate in the world's top 500 automobile industry, only to find that he began to plan his future direction when he was a sophomore, and actively obtained information about various related industries. When I was a junior, I also participated in the job fair of enterprises. And I haven't decided whether to take the postgraduate entrance examination or find a job. What kind of job do you want? Later, I simply didn't want it, and it took a long time. I have to learn my skills first, so I go to the library as soon as I have time. Although I have read a lot of books, I have no clear direction. When I finally graduated, I didn't know about the job market and enterprises, so I had to implement one in a hurry and take it one step at a time. Although they work hard, their knowledge and achievements are far behind them. Choice is greater than hard work, and life is uncertain. Even if you have a lot of enthusiasm and go in the wrong direction, maybe you are heading for the abyss. If you make a mistake, there is no turning back.

So how do you determine your own direction?

A person's knowledge determines his level of speaking, but his knowledge determines the height of his achievement.

Expanding your knowledge will definitely help you find your own direction quickly. Because your world is only as big as the wellhead, you can only know the wonderful world and the 10 thousand possibilities that suit you if you jump out.

With a story, we can intuitively feel the meaning of this sentence. It was not until junior high school that I began to know "lilei &; Han Meimei also had that lovely parrot Polly, but my later college classmate was a fan of Linkin Park and Backstreet Boys at that time, and he traveled to several countries. His perspective and way of thinking are completely beyond our understanding. Now he has become the boss of a multinational company and lives abroad with his family, which is exactly the concept of a winner in life in our mind.

The student in the automobile industry mentioned above is studying in Beijing. He receives more information, knows more people and knows more about the industry than our mainland schools.

Besides, celebrities on the Internet, being alert to the Internet, various WeChat tubas, others' secrets, and Uncle Ye Qiu began to write about Weibo in recent years. Their knowledge is definitely an indispensable key factor for today's achievements.

I just started to understand this year that Peng Xiaoliu is the first author. (Of course, this is not comparable, and this is just to illustrate the level of knowledge. ) Looking at the length of knowledge, I am doomed not to even see it, but to hear its name.

Therefore, internet entrepreneurship must go to the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, which is why.

Reading more books will definitely help you broaden your knowledge and find your own direction. For example, some time ago, big data was very popular. I bought a few big data books and only remembered a few cases after reading them, but this completely opened another door for myself. Google is actually an organization that predicts the flu faster and more accurately than any CDC in the world. A weather forecasting platform actually made a lot of money by selling beer and offering advice on placing goods in supermarkets? When I told this to people around me, everyone thought, Wow, you know so much! At the same time, I also applied this data concept to a business innovation of the company, which changed the investigation method of mysterious customer experience in the whole industry. If I didn't study, I would never know that there are so many possibilities in the world, so books can help us find more possibilities that suit us. But only good books.

There is a saying that "it is better to visit Wan Li Road than to visit countless cattle people". With the rapid development of mobile Internet and the arrival of personal brand era, talented people can let more people know through more channels and platforms. We should try our best to get in touch with these people, visit more and learn more. They will certainly give us a lot of inspiration. "Listening to your words is better than reading for ten years" (Recently, it is increasingly found that every word of the ancients is a good word. Offline visits will get more real and valuable information. Of course, there are many ways to visit, such as attending their learning camp, course remedial classes and offline training camps? Their success will certainly give you a lot of inspiration and let you see the possibility of success. Listen to other people's success and find your own way. We should not only analyze why others succeed, but also see why we are not successful. Where is the gap? No persistence and no direction?

Make friends with positive people, emotions can be infected and transmitted, so be sure to find a group of positive people and make friends with them. Of course, you should also provide your value to others. Your enthusiasm, passion and knowledge are all the values you can bring to the whole team. There must be a teacher in a threesome, and this group of people must have something worth learning. The infinite possibility of "360 lines, each doing its own thing" will make us shine. It turns out that a Hamburg conference can also be like an Apple conference. It turns out that you can start a class by reading a book yourself and find 30-40 students. There are so many people who like to speak, and they can break through 3,000 fans a day. It turns out that writing an article can be forwarded by so many people; So an official WeChat account can save you time and money? A person can walk very fast, but it is also easy to die on the way forward, and a group of talents go further. Go hand in hand with a group of people with dreams, passion and positive attitude. When you are depressed, when you are stagnant, you will regain your courage, so you must find a positive energy organization.

Second, the success of others can never be replicated, and dreams are made by themselves. With the direction goal, the next step is to work towards this goal.

How? Why don't we break it down next time?

"I have heard many success stories, so I have to calm down and look at myself. Don't analyze the reasons for those successes, but analyze the reasons for my failure. "