Speaking skills of reconnecting after disconnection

The speaking skills of reconnecting after disconnection are: expressing concern in time, talking about common interests, keeping a relaxed atmosphere, slowly improving intimacy and giving support to the other party.

1. Express your concern in time: After you get back together, you can properly express what the other party once cared about, such as asking about the other party's recent situation, work and life, so that the other party can feel your concern and care. At the same time, you can also share some of your recent situation to increase each other's topics.

2. Talk about common interests: During the period of disconnection, you can pay attention to what the other party is interested in and find some common topics. When we get together, we can take this opportunity to discuss in depth to enhance mutual understanding and affection.

3. Keep a relaxed atmosphere: During the class reunion, try to keep a relaxed and happy atmosphere and avoid bringing up sensitive or controversial topics. You can let the other person feel your sense of humor and relaxed atmosphere through some humorous words or funny expression packs.

4, slowly improve the intimacy: in the early days of class reunion, you can start from the perspective of friends and gradually improve the intimacy. You can start with some simple greetings and exchanges, and gradually go deep into each other's inner world, so that each other can feel your concern and companionship.

5. Give each other support: In the process of reconnecting, you can pay attention to each other's needs and give appropriate support and help. When the other party is in trouble, you can provide help as soon as possible, so that the other party can feel your concern and support. At the same time, we should also learn to listen and understand each other's voices, so as to deepen mutual understanding and feelings.

Precautions for reconnecting after disconnection:

1. Determine the purpose of reconnection: Before reconnecting after disconnecting, you need to know why you want to reconnect, whether to repair emotional problems or end the relationship. Only by defining the purpose can we better choose the way and opportunity of reunion.

2. Carefully choose the method of reconnection: Reconnection can be done by SMS, telephone, social media, etc. , but need to be carefully selected. If there are serious contradictions before, it is suggested to communicate by SMS or telephone to avoid unnecessary embarrassment and conflict caused by direct face-to-face communication.

3. Control the frequency and time of reconnection: After reconnection, you need to pay attention to control the frequency and time of reconnection, not too frequently or too long, otherwise the other party will feel stressed and uncomfortable. It is suggested that after a period of disconnection, choose a suitable time point to reconnect.

4. Keep a good attitude and behavior: After the reunion, you need to keep a good attitude and behavior, and don't bring emotion or influence to the other party. Respect each other's feelings and decisions, and don't show too active or indifferent attitude during the reunion.