Please eat when you get married.

1. Getting married is inviting people to dinner.

If you don't understand, you won't do anything and you won't get married. Needless to say, friends and relatives sit together to celebrate and find a good meal. I'd love to. But I don't want to invite any colleagues. I belong to an unknown person who works hard in the unit and I am not very good at interpersonal communication. Come on, people may think: this medium-rare one, go to dinner and pay 100 yuan? Besides, which one? Which one wasn't invited? Maybe others will be offended. I can never do it. I can hide in interpersonal communication. Now I'm told to face a bleak life and blood ... God, what should I do?

I think marriage should actually start from the day I got my marriage certificate. Any ceremony that does not treat guests with courtesy is empty. According to my idea, I'll go on holiday after I get my license, but how can I explain it to my unit? People will say behind their backs: Who is so stingy? Married and don't even want to invite dinner? In fact, it's not that I can't bear to pay for this meal, but that I don't want them to make trouble about going to the wedding reception. Because when someone informs me that they are getting married, I often have such confusion. But I can't tell my colleagues that I won't invite everyone to dinner tomorrow, so you don't have to give me 100 yuan!

Seriously, I really don't care about that 100 yuan, I care about the truth. Sincere wishes are much more precious than that little money. But my boyfriend and mother both said: We threw out so much money before, so we should take this opportunity to get it back quickly ... I don't understand: is marriage a way to collect money? In that case, I'd rather not invite this guest. All the money I used to throw away should be regarded as meat buns hitting dogs. I don't like asking others for small things, but I don't have the heart to refuse any requests from others.

Under the urging of my boyfriend countless times, I said to him grumpily, will you give me a reason? As long as I can figure it out, I'll do it as ordinary people do. But he doesn't know. He told me yesterday: Why don't you ask online? So I came to trouble everyone.

2. The invitation letter of the bride. How do you say the invitation letter for the wedding and dinner?

Large banquets involve tens of thousands of guests, so you should not take it lightly when ordering food. The fees and service scope should be set out in black and white, and no verbal commitment should be made.

The following are some points to pay attention to when booking a banquet and writing a menu:

The dishes on the menu should be detailed. Don't accept some ambiguous words, such as "steamed seafood at sea" or "dragons and phoenixes spread their wings". , and specify the content. Whether sea cucumber, shark's fin and suckling pig are whole or part should be listed one by one.

When you make a reservation, you must clearly list the name of the hall where the wine is placed on the order, so as to avoid being too crowded or scattered in the future. Book the bride's lounge before booking a seat, and ensure that the bride's room is not too far and too narrow to be easily peeped. Because new people need to change clothes and make up, spring is not good at first blow. Clearly list the price of each charge, such as tea, bottle opening fee, beer, soda, pre-dinner snacks, service fee, etc.

Before paying the deposit, ask clearly what to do with the deposit and whether to compensate for the loss if the wedding banquet is cancelled due to bad weather or unexpected events. Of course, you must not forget to ask for a deposit receipt. Need to be clear about the number of seats that can be increased or decreased, and how to deal with the remaining banquets. When budgeting the number of tables, we should consider the attendance rate of guests to avoid some embarrassing situations due to insufficient or excessive guests.

When booking a banquet, there should be some arrangements for the host's seat. Other guests generally have no special restrictions, and most of them are on a first-come-first-served basis. If you choose to get married in the wedding season, you should make an appointment in advance, especially in some popular places.

Now many wedding banquet owners will arrange seats for their guests in advance to avoid offending relatives and friends because they are in a hurry. Therefore, a systematic approach is to arrange seats in advance and assign station numbers, so that guests can take their places and everyone will be happy.