After breaking up, keep texting her.

From the description of the landlord, it is not difficult to see that although you have always refused to contact him, you always feel that you must still have feelings for him.

In fact, you should seriously ask yourself if you still have feelings for each other. Will you regret after giving up? What's wrong with your separation? Can these problems be solved in a coordinated way?

After all, life is too short to meet someone you love. As long as subjective reasons do not exist, there is no need to be dragged down by some objective factors, causing longer-term harm and regret.

In your question, I noticed that you said that he had several blind dates, but it seemed that none of them succeeded in the end. Can I understand that the other person has always regarded you as a measure when looking for a new object, or that the other person wants to fall in love and forget you? Otherwise, I don't think we should go on blind dates.

Finally, personally, if you don't love him anymore, or you feel that it is impossible for you, then cut the gordian knot and cut off contact completely, so that the other person can live and you can live. Do you really believe that you can still be friends after breaking up?

I wish you get out of your confusion as soon as possible and find your deepest thoughts. I wish you happiness!