My husband always doesn’t come home in the middle of the night, what should I do?

You may get the answer by asking yourself this question...

1 First of all, what is the relationship status of your husband and wife? If it's good, don't make a fuss about an occasional social interaction, coming home late, not answering the phone, etc.!

Let me tell you about an experience I had: A year or two after we got married, he said he would be back late to accompany a client, but when he didn’t reply after midnight, I started calling more than a dozen times. After I got through but no one answered, I started to think wildly. Did I not reply on purpose? Is your phone lost? Was he drunk? Or something happened on the road? All kinds of worries and doubts. The more I think about it, the more afraid and angry I become. Later he came back and called back and said he was just accompanying his client at the bathing center. I believed him because I knew who he was. Later he would often come back late and would tell me in advance. Occasionally he would send me a video call when I was suspicious. Such things, over time I became boring myself!

Therefore, it is unavoidable for business people to have men socialize outside. As long as two people have a good relationship, they should be understanding!

2 If your distrust of him has risen to a certain level, and he doesn’t reply or respond to messages, and he doesn’t give a good explanation or communication when he comes back, and you still have doubts, then it’s not what you want. What you think is a matter of his mentality, but a matter of emotional trust between you!

3 You can also switch positions. If you are hanging out with your sister and he cannot contact you, what do you think your mentality is?

Let me teach you a trick: don’t make any noise or make a fuss. Treat the other person the way he should treat you. When you wait for him to be at home, you also go out for a night and don’t answer the phone. message and see how he reacts!

When my children were young, my husband would go out to play cards, drink, and not answer the phone in the middle of the night. At first, I was worried that I wouldn't be able to sleep. But then I figured it out and everything became indifferent. When my children entered junior high school, I started Fitness, yoga, my whole personality has changed, and I have lost a lot of weight. Now my son is studying well, and I am in better shape. Why do I have to worry about so much? I make money by myself, pick up and tutor my son by myself, drive by myself, and work hard in the workplace by myself. , My son is in high school, there are more men around me, but my husband starts to worry about me, I make phone calls when I go to dinner and socialize, women live for themselves, and live more wonderfully,

Maybe I will I offend most men, but men are often really unreliable. When I used to work, most of the men in the company who lived in different places had a mistress. Even a small company employee had a mistress. At the end of the year, The supplier invited us to dinner and sang karaoke. As soon as we girls left after dinner, they started looking for young ladies. There was a colleague who was very pure. We often told him not to hang out with them. He would be good to his wife. He could hold on for a few years, and we left together, but one year later he let us go first. Alas, we all said that the last good man had fallen. When we ask those men, are they not afraid that their wives will know? They say that the third child will help hide it. For example, when the wife calls, the third child will not say anything. When the wife comes, the third child will automatically avoid it. Therefore, when a husband is within one foot of a husband, he is a husband. Girls We should have less longing for marriage, more reality, more vigilance, more principles, and be mentally prepared to turn around at any time.

According to normal people’s psychology, under normal circumstances, after marriage, if a man doesn’t come home after midnight, doesn’t answer the phone, or doesn’t reply to text messages, it can be said that he has basically done nothing good! Maybe some men will think that what I say is a bit extreme, but it is really not the case. Since they are husband and wife, it is right for two people to trust each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other. But the premise is mutual respect and the obligation to tell each other no matter what happens. After all, couples are the closest people in the world after marriage, and every move you make concerns the other person's heart. I believe that many wives have the habit of not sleeping alone when their husbands don't come home. As a husband, you know that one of the lights in thousands of houses has been lit for you after midnight. As long as you have her in your heart, even if you really can't go back. Come on, it’s time to give her a letter to her who is waiting for you at home so that she can feel at ease.

However, everything has two sides. The ancients said: When we are married as husband and wife, there is no doubt about the love between the two.

No matter what the situation, trust is the most basic attribute of family harmony. As a wife, if something like this happens to her husband occasionally, and on the premise that she can explain it clearly afterwards, she should try her best to give her husband trust. Marriage is like a handful of sand. The tighter you hold it, the easier it is for the light to leak out. On the contrary, it is like flying a kite. It is the wisest thing to do, and it will be more conducive to a long-term marriage. As a husband, you should try to avoid these things from happening, especially in today's world where communication is so advanced. If you don't answer the phone or reply to messages after the early morning, it is easy for the other half of the family to have wild imaginations and cause unnecessary misunderstandings. Wife is for loving, not for drying.

My husband drinks until early in the morning and doesn’t come back, doesn’t answer the phone, and doesn’t reply to text messages. This is nothing more than the following situations.

1: I got drunk with my friends. When I was drunk, I didn’t answer my wife’s phone calls in order to save face for myself, so as not to make my friends laugh at my wife’s strictness.

Two: I went to sing after drinking. The sound in the box was too loud, and I was too drunk to hear it.

Three: The worst situation is that you have done something bad and dare not answer the phone.

No matter what the situation is, it shows that this man is an irresponsible husband. A good husband will not drink until midnight. Even if he really socializes until midnight, he will take the initiative to explain the situation to his wife. Therefore, when you meet a husband like this, you should be more careful!

Do you agree?

No matter what the psychology of an irresponsible man! Take care of yourself, love yourself, and don’t understand men too much, because that will make you sad!

This phenomenon is most vividly reflected in low-level talents

When a person has quality and reason, especially an adult, he has the ability to distinguish things and control his own inner thoughts. Level, he will have rational thinking, what occasion? What kind of audience is it facing? What are your own codes of conduct and standards? It will all be within reason.

People with normal thinking will inform their significant other in advance when they leave home to socialize, and they should not be disrespectful when they are drinking and enjoying themselves! Don’t you know that your family members will miss you in the dead of night? Worried? Can't you just call home to show respect?

Nowadays, there are many people who lack emotional intelligence and education. They treat disgusting things as interesting, take nonsense as a matter of fact, and use vulgarity as coolness. In my opinion, the kind of people who forget about themselves even after drinking are really People who lack self-control.

Since he doesn’t answer calls or text messages, then get divorced as soon as possible. Rather than being with this kind of person, it would be better to be single alone.

My husband was like this before, but every time he came back he had a reasonable explanation, but then I still found out that he had cheated on me