My friend's son struggled with a comforting word.

Parents' reaction after the child fell.

1, picked up the child and comforted softly.

Many parents panic when they hear their children cry. They don't know what happened. They can only hug their children in their arms and comfort them softly, and then ask them what's going on after their emotions have calmed down.

2. Let the children cry until they calm down.

Another kind of parents may feel that they are cold-blooded in the eyes of many people, but they don't really care. When they face a crying child, they may stand or sit, watch the child cry, and tell them "don't cry", and then wait until they calm down, and then reason with the child so that the child can learn to be strong.

Family education should change from an experienced educator to a scientific educator, from one-sided emphasis on book knowledge to teaching children how to behave correctly, from simple orders to equal communication. -Li Lanqing

Many parents hold their children in their arms and say "don't cry" when they cry, trying to calm their children's emotions through this sentence. In fact, this sentence of parents is too light, which may only enter the child's ear, but not the child's heart! Compared with "not crying", parents can try to comfort their children with the following three sentences, which may be more useful.

Parents can comfort their children with these three sentences.

First, "give you a hug, and I'll blow it for you and it won't hurt."

Parents can say to their children, "Give me a hug. I will blow it for you if it hurts, and it doesn't hurt. " This sentence seems a bit exaggerated, obviously it already hurts, so how come it doesn't hurt to blow it?

In fact, this is a psychological suggestion. The child's skin is broken. It must hurt. Parents' words only diverted their attention from the pain. Moreover, parents will feel a little cold when blowing the wound, and the child may have psychological hints that it doesn't hurt.

Second, "a strong baby can't cry all the time."

Parents don't have to help their children when they fall, but they can slowly squat down beside them and whisper to them, "I know you are in pain, but a strong baby can't cry all the time." How can you protect me if you are not strong? "

What parents say to their children is actually a sign of weakness. Children may give themselves a psychological hint that they can't cry. Parents have to wait for themselves to protect themselves, and their strong consciousness doubles.

Third, "don't be afraid, I'm always by your side."

Children will feel lost when they fall, because they can't control themselves, and they will also leave sequelae for their children. They will imagine countless scenes of falling down. At this time, parents should comfort their children and tell them that "parents are always around", which can alleviate the fear and pain of falling.