As a woman, have you ever felt "insecure" in your life?

? ?As a female, I also have a personal experience of being “unsafe” in aspects of my life such as riding alone in a car or renting a house alone.

According to media reports, on June 10, a vicious beating incident occurred at a barbecue restaurant in Tangshan, Hebei Province. After the video of this incident was posted online, it immediately caused an uproar and aroused the indignation of countless netizens.

On June 10, at a barbecue restaurant in Tangshan, while several girls were dining, a young man walked up to the girls’ table and touched the back of one of the girls in white. engage in harassment. After being severely reprimanded by the girl, he actually hit the girl violently, first slapping the girl in white with his hand. The girl's friend in white at the same table tried to protect the girl in white in self-defense, but was knocked to the ground by the young man. He raised his chair high and hit the girl who was helping him. Friends can see from the video that the scene got out of hand and the young man's companions also directly participated in the fight. Not only did they punch and kick the girls, but bottles, cups, plates, and even chairs became A weapon used to attack girls.

After several thugs beat the girls violently, the girl in white was already injured and fell to the ground. The thugs dragged the victim girl outside the hotel and beat her. A female customer was almost mistakenly identified and beaten together. , and the girl who was beaten in the end had multiple open wounds on her body, and her head was badly beaten. The tragic situation made me and my friends around me extremely indignant.

One stone stirs up a thousand waves. After the video of these girls being beaten by thugs was exposed, it aroused great indignation among netizens. People condemned the brutality of the thugs and hoped that the public security organs would severely punish the murderers. On the afternoon of the 11th, according to police reports, the last foreign-provincial person involved in the beating case at a Tangshan barbecue restaurant in Hebei Province was also arrested in Jiangsu. So far, all nine persons involved in the case have been brought to justice, and the case is under further investigation. At present, the injured woman's condition is stable. My friends and I hope that this case will be handled promptly and fairly.

I think the incident of a group beating of a woman in Tangshan was shocking and outrageous. The thugs not only challenged the law, but also challenged social order and the public's sense of security. In this incident, it was women who felt the most fear. I think the fact that the man who was a diner in the barbecue restaurant got angry and beat the girl after teasing her to no avail reveals that in real life, women have many "unsafe" feelings. As a woman, I also have personal feelings of being “unsafe” in aspects of my life such as riding alone in a car or renting an apartment alone.

? ?In real life, with the accelerated pace of life and the pressure of work and study, more and more young women live alone. As a woman, I also have personal feelings of being “unsafe” in aspects of my life such as riding alone in a car or renting an apartment alone. Last year, after working overtime at work, it was already 11 o'clock in the night when I took a taxi home. When I got off the bus at the entrance of the community, a young man who took the same taxi also followed me into the community and followed me all the time. At that time, there were no other pedestrians in the passage of the community. I was very nervous and fearful. In desperation, I walked straight to the nearest property duty room and called the property duty number with my mobile phone. I said that the self-opening water pipe in my home had burst and the neighbor's room downstairs had been soaked. In front of the property duty room, ask the duty personnel to come out and make repairs immediately. After the call, the two property management personnel on duty pushed open the door and walked out. The man who was following me wanted to run away. I quickly explained the situation to the property management personnel and finally captured the man who was following him and sent him to the police station.

Another time, I encountered someone pretending to be a gas company employee to check the gas at my door. At that time, someone knocked on the door and said that the gas company came to check the gas usage. Since I lived alone, I felt through the door mirror that I had never seen this gas company employee before, so I refused to open the door. The knock on the door by the man outside became louder and louder. I was very scared at the time, so I immediately called the property management company and asked them to come to confirm whether it was the gas company personnel who came to provide services. Soon, the real estate agent arrived, and it turned out that a fugitive had come to visit the community, and after mastering the life patterns of single people in the community, he was ready to commit crimes.

Although it was a near miss, I was really scared when I thought about it afterwards.

As the saying goes, nip problems before they happen. I think, as a woman, although "unsafe" in life is unpredictable, you can prevent "unsafe" incidents by improving your own awareness of risk prevention. For example, you should take a regular bus when going out alone or after working overtime at night. Do not take taxis or online ride-hailing services. Do not take unlicensed cars or motorcycles. If you rent a house alone, try not to find a place that is too remote, and replace the lock cylinder in time after renting a house. When someone knocks on the door, do not open the door hastily. Confirm his identity before opening the door, so as to avoid "unsafe" incidents to the greatest extent.