My son is 28 years old and has no formal job. I want to ask the leader for help. I want to send him a message first. How can I write a message?

In fact, this kind of thing doesn't need to send a message. If you send a message, the people's leaders will think that you don't take this seriously.

In order to take care of the face of the leader and your face, you should put it forward in a more subtle way. You'd better have a chat at ordinary times, or talk about your son over tea and tell him what he can do, and then he won't look for a job. You are very annoyed. Such a topic. Once, twice. After you mentioned it twice, the leader will realize that you put your son in on purpose, and he will tell you if he wants to. Then if he hasn't explicitly let him in, you can definitely ask him, but if so, there is little chance for your son to come in at this point.