Girl, please cherish life and stay away from love rat.

Lu Qi, known as the "emotional daddy", recently set up a "compound training camp". My first reaction was that if he is a love rat, the sooner he breaks up, the better. The sooner he breaks up, the luckier he is. What can he get back together? Later, I found out that fortunately, Lu Qi was not confused. He said that he would talk about "what circumstances, never get back together."

Let me start. If it's a love rat, let's split up quickly and leave love rat before it's too late.

Girl, please cherish your life and stay away from love rat.

1? Juanzi's story

Juanzi is a girl with both talent and intelligence. She is fair-skinned and 1.7 meters tall. She stands out from the crowd easily, but she is quiet and gentle. When I was a graduate student, a male classmate, D, chased her hard, like a puppy drooling over bones, and she was diligent and sticky, and D succeeded.

After three years of love, Juanzi continued to study PhD, and D returned home to work in a provincial capital city. Juanzi thinks that it's not a problem to be away from home. After graduation, he will go to him.

she didn't notice the change, or she never doubted each other. D said the most word to Juanzi is busy, and he often can't contact anyone because he is busy; I can't come to see her at school because I'm busy; I forgot to call back and text back because I was busy. During this time in a different place, Juanzi went to see him. Later, Juanzi's mother suddenly fell ill, breast cancer, and Juanzi stayed with her. Juanzi's mother said one day, I was relieved to see you get married.

Juanzi asked D to meet him, and she proposed to get married, and he proposed to break up. Juanzi is stupid.

She didn't expect this at all. She didn't understand why. In the months of constantly asking for reasons, D first gave a reason, "I don't deserve you" (hypocritical excuse, why did you go so early? Do you think you deserve it when you are pursuing others? ), Juanzi refused to give up, and later said "My mother didn't agree" and "My family didn't agree". Juanzi refused to give up. Finally, he said, "Our family thinks that you may get this disease like your mother in the future, and we can't get married. Let's split it up." This sentence is like throwing a bucket of cold water on Juanzi from head to toe for three or nine days, and then letting her stand in the snow for one night. It was cold, and my heart was full.

Actually, there was a follow-up. Juanzi later learned that after D worked, the family introduced the daughter of a bank president who worked in a bank. In fact, she changed her mind and cheated on Juanzi, but she had to hurt him so deeply. While secretly dating someone else to get married, she stabbed her in the heart and told her to get out of here. Juanzi said, he just told me that he likes someone else and wants to marry someone else. I won't pester him, but why did he do it? It hurts too much.

Girl, because he is love rat, his character is worse than shit. Unfortunately, there is such a love rat in this world, and even more unfortunately, you have met it.

first, you can't trust him more than you trust yourself. When he doesn't contact you, you call him and he doesn't answer. Your relationship has changed. You must have noticed that you are deceiving yourself. I feel wrong. I believe he won't lie to me. I believe he won't cheat. No, girl, the only person you should trust is yourself. You always believe in your feelings, so that you can choose the right clothes, choose the right major, choose the right university, and trust your feelings. In the dark night, you will choose the bright road instead of the dark and dull and creepy path.

second, people's minds will change. He told you that he likes you for 1, years, and he also told another girl that he likes you for 1, years, the same person, the lines are the same, and his heart has changed. How to compare it? For example, you eat meat buns every day, and then, you don't want meat buns, and you don't like meat buns anymore. You want to eat vegetable buns, bread, hemp balls and fried dough sticks. . . Of course, people are not steamed stuffed buns, and feelings are not eating steamed stuffed buns. People should be responsible for their feelings. I just make an analogy to prove that people's hearts can change. Therefore, you should get out early when you find that the situation is wrong (alas, it's a pity that most girls will be trapped by love and mired in mud).

Third, you may not be able to get over it for several years after breaking up with love rat, but believe me, when you get out of the haze, you will find how lucky it is to break up with love rat. It's just a waste of youth to stay with love rat. Isn't it more terrible to marry love rat? The sooner we break up, we will save ourselves time and stop spending time on people who are not worth it. What a great thing. In addition, after seeing love rat, you will naturally know the opposite of love rat, and your ability to know people will be better, which will help you get to know a good marriage.

2 Huawei leaflet door

This is a true story that happened in Huawei in 214. A girl distributed leaflets at the gate of Huawei, accusing love rat and Xiaosan of the company. Some of the original leaflets were too large, so I evaded them. The general content is that the two men talked about love for a year and a half, and the man took good care of her, so they got the certificate.

then, the woman found out about getting the certificate, but the man didn't tell his mother. After a quarrel between the two men, the woman decided that the man was cheating, and the man argued in every way. In a XXOO between a woman and a man, the woman actually wanted to have children and proposed not to use condoms. The man disagreed, but after the event, she immediately filed for divorce. Then another night, the man tricked the woman into not using condoms, but when it came to that or something, he pulled it out again. Afterwards, he said that his parents didn't want them to have children, and he said that if they couldn't, they would go their separate ways. The woman also bumped into the man and the mistress and made out in the parking lot of the unit, so she couldn't figure out why she had an affair with another woman and tricked herself into going to bed, so she went to the door of Huawei to send leaflets to expose it.

is it stupid? This woman is really stupid, cheated and handled in a stupid way.

first, "there are only zero and countless infidelities". If you tolerate it once, be prepared to tolerate it again. The question is, I ask you, why do you put up with it? You can also make money if you have arms and legs. What are you afraid of if you didn't eat his rice or noodles in the first 3 years? Anyone who leaves this world can live.

second, don't try to save your marriage by having children. It's unfair to children. What do you think of giving birth to a child? A bargaining chip to change his mind? If a man changes his mind, five horses can't be pulled back, even if he is his own child, but he doesn't love you. Will he be responsible for the child you gave birth to? Will he love it? Don't suffer for yourself, but continue to be irresponsible to yourself.

thirdly, what is the marriage certificate for? The marriage certificate is not a decoration, nor is it that everyone has to get a certificate to get married anyway, so we got one. The marriage certificate is a legal proof. Even though women are still relatively disadvantaged at present, the law has not yet established a mechanism to let the man go bankrupt because of his infidelity. Girls should also know the law and use legal weapons to protect their rights and interests. If you find out that the other party is cheating, don't cry, make trouble and hang yourself. It's useless. You should quickly collect evidence and go to court. He wants a divorce. mental damage compensation who hurt you should pay for it. How can you let him get married and divorce casually? The marriage certificate is so easy to open. If a baby has an affair with a man, he must be forced to give alimony to his wife and children every month. The baby can't be made by himself, and the marriage can be divorced. He must bear the main responsibility for the divorce caused by his derailment.

Fourthly, for the sake of protecting myself, I don't recommend this way of distributing leaflets to expose love rat's crimes. First, it is very likely that love rat will bite back and accuse you of violating privacy or something; Second, a lot of private life information, including sex, is released in the form of leaflets in a conservative domestic environment, which is not good for the girl herself; Third, whether his company will fire him or not, and whether his colleagues around him will despise him, his punishment is a piece of cake compared with your pain. If this company fires him, he can change his company, or even change his city. What is the contempt of others? As long as he is cheeky enough and has no lethality at all, there is no sense of shame in love rat. It's better to go through formal channels and resort to legal means. You have a certificate.

3? Female reporter committed suicide by jumping off a building for love

In the early morning of November 27th, 216, female reporter Duan Danfeng posted in a circle of friends and Weibo that her boyfriend Pan Ao cheated on her before marriage. "Pan Ao, you have become too fast in just a few days, and you don't even have room to give me a buffer. You owe me a favor and a promised future in this life. . . Sometimes I wonder how much I love to give up everything, even my life. Parents and all those who love me should not be too sad, don't have to stay up all night, don't wake up again, don't have to hurt again, be relieved, and you should be happy for me. " He hasn't answered her phone for a day and two nights, and Duan Danfeng is outside her new house at the moment. After writing this passage, she jumped from the 11th floor and ended her life at the age of 29.

This incident has attracted a lot of attention on the Internet. I turned over Weibo before Danfeng, and I felt more and more heartbroken. This is a woman with deep feelings. Her kindness and love words will be remembered until her death. Faced with such pain and betrayal, she chose to end her life. It's not worth it, girl. Look at those photos you took abroad before. The world is so big, you are free. You are only temporarily overwhelmed by pain, but as long as you get through it, you can set your heart free again.

First, you are still so young, and you have a long way to go. When you meet this part of love rat, try to cross it! If you are depressed because of lovelorn love, or can't get out of the emotional shadow for a long time, you can seek professional help, such as a psychologist. Don't feel that you have to be a serious mental illness or madman to see a psychiatrist. If you are unhappy, you have a knot in your heart and are depressed, you should slowly get out of the predicament through psychological counseling.

Second, girl, you should give yourself a chance, give yourself a chance to be happy again, eat all the delicious food in this world, travel all the good scenery in this world and read all the good books in this world. You should love yourself hard, not for anyone, because you are unique in this world. So, please eat and sleep on time, think about your favorite food, clothes, colors and smells, and live for yourself. Girl, even if it's really hard, you don't want to jump off a building or cut your wrist. If you have that kung fu, you might as well think about it. Why not love rat jump off a building? Don't lose the whole world just because you lose one person. It's your skill to force love rat to jump off a building.

4 The Secret Mistress

In Divorce Lawyer, Yao Chen plays Luo Kun, a shrewd and intelligent lawyer elite, who is set aside by his boss and becomes a mistress. She was cheated by a mistress. In the underground romance with my boss for several years, it was an office romance, so everything between them was unknown to outsiders until the boss's wife appeared in the company, facing the same unknown original match, Luo Gu's heart was dripping with blood, but his face could not show it at all. Like breaking a tooth and swallowing it, Luo Gu left his boss, resigned and changed his job. Of course, we all know the ending, Luo Kun and Wu Xiubo played Chi Haidong together.

The stem of this story is that both women are victims, and only one person knows the truth from beginning to end. This person is love rat, who plays with people's hearts like the palm of his hand. Therefore, even though the boss is a famous lawyer, rich and talented, he is still love rat. Speaking of which, it must be said, girl, if the person you fall in love with doesn't love you, his status, money, job and status have nothing to do with you. Even if he has feelings for you, you have a shady relationship, so his status, money, job and status have nothing to do with you.

Many girls want to entrust a man for life on the spur of the moment because they think he is excellent, but besides the hardware conditions, his heart is the most fundamental. Compared with his level of CET-4 and CET-6, education, annual salary, and the strength of buying a house, personality is the most important consideration.

I know that even if the IQ of a woman in love is not zero, she has a fuzzy function with a diaphragm, which adds luster to her partner's advantages and blurs her shortcomings to insignificance. We have experienced the sweetness of being in love together, and we have completely given our true feelings and sincerity, and we have completely caught up with youth and sincerity. Even some girls have been hurt to pieces in a love affair, and they still can't bear to let go. When they wake up completely and get out of the haze, they realize how pitiful and hateful they used to be, and waste their time for people who are not worth it.

Girl, please cherish your life and stay away from love rat. Men, an animal, are the medicine for women's loneliness, but the medicine can't be eaten indiscriminately, so we must find a reliable one.

Girl, self-love is king. Love from the opposite sex is icing on the cake. Whether anyone loves you or not, you must love yourself.

Girl, whether love rat won 5 million in the lottery or was killed by a car when he went out, you should turn around and leave as soon as possible, and everything about him has nothing to do with you from now on.