What is the psychology of the boy who offered to break up?

No matter what the reason, I think it is advisable for boys to break up on their own initiative.

Because he knows what he wants to do, he won't be like those irresponsible boys who don't want to break up even if they don't love each other, thus dragging down other girls in vain and wasting each other's time. This is really very wrong.

Then, let's analyze what the boys who offered to break up think. First of all, I think there is a situation that he definitely doesn't love, so he will break up. If he still loves this girl, he will definitely not want to break up. The boy has a strong possessiveness to the person he likes, and breaking up on his own initiative means that he doesn't have that possessiveness to this girl, so he definitely doesn't love her.

I don't think the average boy will break up in order to save each other like a girl, so once a boy can break up on his own initiative, it means that he really doesn't want to continue this relationship and doesn't love it.

In addition, I think there is another possibility, that is, this boy still loves that girl, but feels that he is not worthy of her. In that case, he will probably take the initiative to break up. Because he thinks he can't delay others, in this case, the boy actually has deep feelings for the girl, but he feels that the girl's happiness can't be given by himself, so he is willing to let go, hoping that the girl can find a better person.

This kind of situation generally appears in boys with inferiority complex and introversion. They lack confidence in themselves and feel that their abilities can't bring happiness to the girls they like. In fact, at this time, although they broke up voluntarily, they were also very sad.