I sent a text message to my ex who I haven't contacted for a long time, asking if she has a boyfriend, and suddenly turned against me and told me to get out.

I think your boyfriend is not petty. He cares about you. Some men have strong self-esteem and hate girls cheating.

It's normal for me to swear. You're really confused. You should call or tell him about it first. You didn't tell him in advance, and then he misunderstood you and will continue to misunderstand you.

I don't think you should care too much about him, if you want to save it.

Just say, honey, I'm sorry, I forgot to make an appointment with you because of my brother's birthday that day. When you asked me out, I was so nervous that I forgot to tell you. Please forgive me if you still don't believe me. I'll ask my brother to tell you the truth. That's it.

If you don't believe me, I'll roll again, but I want to make it clear before I roll.

I'm not what you think.