Another bear Haizi who squandered hard-earned money, his mother cried and beat her son. What happened afterwards?

During the epidemic, all schools in the country had to stop learning to cooperate with epidemic prevention. In order not to delay children's studies, most schools adopt online teaching. At the same time, it also provides a "legitimate" reason for students to contact mobile phones. Many examples of students playing games and watching live broadcasts on the grounds of online classes have been exposed on the Internet. Children's self-control is relatively poor, so parents are advised to play an adequate supervisory role during their online classes.

"Do you say or not? Can you talk? "

At the home of Hou Dajie, xinmi city, Zhengzhou City, Henan Province, she is crying and cursing her 1 1 year-old son. My sister Hou has been asking questions, while the son (pseudonym) sitting opposite her just bowed his head and sobbed silently. Sister Hou was very excited and slapped the child on the head. The less her son talks, the angrier she gets, and it is inevitable that she will pinch the child. I don't know if it is heartache or other reasons. Sister Hou's face is full of tears.

What the hell happened? What does Hou Jie want her son to say? It turned out that a while ago, Hou Dajie paid her salary on the construction site, but 200 yuan disappeared for no reason. The left calculation and right calculation were all wrong, so she had to ask her eldest son for help. The eldest son checked the transaction records in his mother's mobile phone and found that the money had been recharged to the game platform. According to rough statistics, during this period, it took more than 40 thousand yuan to buy game equipment at home. Only then did everyone know that Xiao Qiang had done all this.

According to Xiao Qiang's cousin, all the money bought is a glorious skin and a hero, and an elite Maserati. As for why Xiao Qiang spent so much money, his purpose was actually "simple".

"I still want to make up, because the role is very powerful. When I entered the arena, a group of people surrounded me."

"I can show off in front of my classmates."

By his own admission, Xiao Qiang peeked and remembered the password when his mother paid. Then I began to secretly use my mother's mobile phone to pay for the purchase of equipment, which was out of control. What makes his family even more angry is that he only used 27,800 yuan to recharge his account, and more than 1 10,000 was for his classmates. In order not to let adults find out, she also deleted the debit message and transfer record.

Sister Hou hit the child this time to make him personally promise never to play games again. Faced with the pressure of her mother, Xiao Qiang took off her mask angrily and finally began to speak while sobbing: "I am very wronged, and she (mother) accuses me blindly." Every time I make a mistake, I always blame me. I never look for reasons on myself. Every time I make a mistake first, I realize my mistake. "

Cousin interjected: "Do you still play games in the future?"

Xiao Qiang: "Don't play."

Cousin: "Then give me a promise."

Xiao Qiang: "I won't play games in the future. I will study hard and listen to my family." Wrong, I was wrong. "

Cousin: "Your game is very nice. Is it beautiful for your mother, your father and your brother to make money with cement on their backs? "

Seeing her son change his mind and sincerely admit his mistake, Ms. Hou's anger also disappeared. He said to his son, "I didn't educate you well and spent less time with you. I am also responsible, mainly because I have to go out to work all day." I will take good care of you in the future, and I will be obedient and stop playing games. "

Sister Hou said frankly that apart from her youngest son, all the family members earn money by backing cement. Carrying a bag of cement can only take 1 yuan, and you have to load it into the car. She needs to carry more than 40 thousand bags of cement to earn the money back. After the incident, the reporter helped contact the official customer service and submitted a refund application. A news returned 24,700 yuan. The more than 10,000 pieces recharged to classmates will definitely not be returned because the parents of the other party do not cooperate and the submitted materials are incomplete.

I remember a sentence in the preface of winter vacation life in Primary School: "Playing is a child's nature and learning is a child's bounden duty". I also support children not to be too strict, and give them reasonable time to play, but it depends on how and what they play. Mobile games have a bad influence on the development of eyes and cervical vertebrae, and they are easy to indulge and addiction, and they can consume a lot of time unconsciously. I don't approve of parents letting their children play online games.

Moreover, judging from Xiao Qiang's sentence "You can show off in front of classmates", there are still many children playing games in the class, and they even often "communicate and compete", which is inevitably worrying. When I was a child, I once went to the game hall in the village and was kicked out by my father. When I got home, I was severely scolded, and I was forbidden to get into the bad habit of video games. It seems to be a common thing for students to play mobile games now. I don't know if my parents are soft-hearted or soft-hearted.

I have heard many people say that other children have mobile phones instead of yours, which will hurt his young self-esteem and easily lead to inferiority complex. The author thinks that even if self-esteem is hurt, parents have an unshirkable responsibility because they have not guided their children to establish correct values. Students should compare their grades and achievements, not whether they have mobile phones or even whether their parents have luxury cars. Besides, there is nothing wrong with hurting such self-esteem, right? It's better than habit.

In a word, parents play an important role in children's growth. Not only a guardian, but also a companion and guide, don't you think?