Bouquet of love: I still love you, but I don't like you anymore.

What is a bunch of love like? Maybe so-from germination to blooming, then dying slowly and returning to ordinary.

In the movie, the man and the woman meet at the flower-like age and bump into romantic love. Running in the rainy night when we first met, after meeting again and again, the two sides summoned up their courage to express their love and then kissed at the traffic lights. Play zelda together, read poems together ... do all kinds of like-minded things together and spend one happy moment after another.

The love in the first half is really beautiful, just as beautiful and attractive as flowers. People can't help but sigh that "the best love can only be like one thing, that is, fully satisfying one's own happiness, and the other person happens to appear on every road that makes one happy", and this kind of love needs the kind of "just right", and both parties can get it without deliberate efforts.

Love in youth is always beautiful, after all, there is no need to consider too many social problems. If their love is not defeated by reality, they may step into the marriage hall steadily and live a happy life.

Under the urging of time, they have to face various pressures, such as employment pressure, rental pressure, work performance pressure ... men and women are urged to integrate into society and grow up "maturely".

Boyfriend, who used to like reading poetry, has now become a successful student; I used to play zelda, but now I play happily ... the beautiful love moment in the past will be slowly diluted by the destruction of reality and become indifferent. Living under the same roof has become like a stagnant pool. Even throwing a big stone won't stir up any waves.

At first, I couldn't understand why the love between men and women disappeared. Obviously, both sides love each other very much and want to take care of each other's feelings, but in the end, both of them are unhappy. During this period, there was no third party, no cheating, no dog blood plot, but they were so ordinary, not dull to separate.

In the TV series Quartet written by Yuzi Sakamoto, there was a similar scene-in the drama, Mr. Juan and Zhen Ji, two coincidences happened together, and when they first got together, they were vigorous, and then they slowly gave in to each other and finally had differences in their hearts. Mr Juan doesn't like lemon in fried chicken, but he always looks happy in front of Zhen Ji. Even if he was dismissed by the company, he dared not tell the truth. In order to take care of her husband full-time, Miss Zhen Ji is willing to be a housewife at home, giving up her hobby of playing the violin. Mr Juan's wish is to stay in love all the time, while Miss Zhen Ji hopes that two people can get along like family.

The reason is exactly the same. Just like Mr. Juan and Miss Zhen Ji in the Quartet, the male and female hosts of "Bouquet of Love" want to keep the feeling of love on the one hand, and they want to get married and have children together even if they don't feel in love on the other. This conflict of ideas is also the reason for their separation. Even if the original love is so vigorous, the two sides will eventually be defeated by differences.

Then why can't we be together forever? We can live together without the throb of meeting. Why are you obsessed with the feeling of love?

In the end, the male host in the play also wants the female host to marry herself in this way and live a plain life. But the hostess decisively refused.

"Because love is neither an impulse in chaos nor a reward after success, it is just a matter of life stage. There is no need to dwell on the past and right and wrong. Many things have no results, which is already the best ending we can do at that time. " -Douban users

Seeing this film review by netizens, I suddenly understood the emotion conveyed by this drama. The hero and heroine meet for the first time because they have the same interests, like the same writer, like the same comic book ... coincidentally, they fall in love.

But the hostess wants to synchronize with the comics that the other person likes, and now you stay in the first few chapters. I know you desperately want to give me everything you want, but the life of the same frequency is what the hostess wants.

Maybe this kind of love can't be met, but think about it, "If you don't forget it, there will be aftermath." I hope everyone can find a like-minded partner. Even if not, don't worry. I believe that time will reward everyone who works hard.

* The above contents are only personal views; The picture comes from Douban movie.