My husband is always hitting children. How can I communicate with my husband on the education of my children?

We know that our generation or the previous generation are almost all made of sticks. And when we are parents, we are taught that it is wrong to hit children.

Of course, we agree in our hearts, but sometimes it is not so easy for some people. Therefore, before communicating with your husband, accept and understand your husband first.

Generally speaking, people who like to hit children will be treated as children. Wives need to understand this situation. A wife can guide her husband to understand the influence of family background on people and his independent vitality by reading or studying courses, so that he can have a real sense of experience as much as possible.

Next, if my husband understands, I will communicate with my husband like this for reference only:

Dear husband, first of all, thank you for your long-term commitment to our family. You are the backbone of this family. You support our family.

Baby is our lovely child and the crystallization of our love. We all love him very much, and we all hope that he can persevere and make a difference like you.

But after all, the baby is too young to understand. It often makes us angry, and I sometimes gnash my teeth. However, if we can't be more tolerant and patient with his every behavior, but add fists and feet, will our baby become like this when he grows up, and even become a juvenile reform-through-labor prisoner one day? I don't think we want to see such an outcome.

Dear husband, I want you to work hard with me to find out whether we can get along better with our children and educate them better. Let our baby not only respect us, but also love us and be close to us. Let's try to talk with the child together, instead of doing things casually, and cultivate him into an excellent person together. Do you think it's okay?

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If your husband is persuaded by you, your wife can take him to learn emotional management and parenting knowledge, such as positive discipline. Harmonious families advance and retreat, and the power to advance is greater.

If the husband has not accepted it for a while, or can't correct it at once, then the wife needs to change herself first. My wife can control her emotions first, so can my wife. I have a better way to educate my children, and I think my husband will be gradually affected. After all, we want our husbands to be patient with their children, and we should also be patient with our husbands.

I wish it better and better.

I am Yimi, a working mother who grew up with her, and I like learning and exploring. Parenting is more wonderful with you.