After reading to his dead wife,

What do you feel after reading a certain work? It's time to spend some time writing your own thoughts. Presumably, many people are worried about how to write a good feeling after reading. The following is my thoughts on my dead wife, for reference only. Welcome to reading.

1 holiday, I bought "Moonlight on the Lotus Pond" written by Zhu Ziqing. What shocked me most was that it was written for my dead wife.

This article mainly records the little things that she took good care of her family before her death. "You think of your children first, and then it's my turn." It is written that in the dead woman's heart, the author and children are hers, and she devoted her life to her family without considering herself. Her sixth son was born in poor health. In order to take care of the children, she neglected her growing lung disease. She refused to listen to persuasion, endured her illness and was busy taking care of the children all day. She was happy to see that Liu Er was a little tougher and that dry smile was on her yellow wax-like face. From this incident, we can see her great selfless maternal love and her great endurance to the disease. Although she was spoiled since childhood, after becoming a mother, she breast-fed all four children. When she ran out of milk, she gave the baby milk powder. I was worried when I heard the child crying at night. She wants her children to grow up happily and treat each other as equals, which shows that she loves them very much. The phrase "1year in a short 12-year marriage is sometimes spent on children" shows her dedication to children. Even though she was so ill, she still said, "I'm dead. This large group of children is really miserable." It shows that she is not worried about her life in the face of death, but worried that she can no longer look after the children. When she went back to her mother's house for illness, she cried and said, "I wonder if I can see you again?" This shows her reluctance to her husband. We can see that she is a good wife and mother, whether she is worried about her children or unwilling to give up on her husband.

The article also wrote that when they first got married, she was still attached to her former home, so the author wrote angrily to scold her. She was not angry or sad, but she never expressed her dissatisfaction again. She suffered a lot at home and didn't complain when she was wronged. From a delicate person to a mother who does housework and takes care of children. Especially in the process of two desertions, she led the old man and a group of children to hide in Tibet. As you can imagine, her bravery is shocking and admirable. She knows that the author (husband) likes reading. Although I don't know what the books are for, she took a box of books with her in all kinds of difficult escapes, which shows her full support for her husband's hobbies and career. When she was seriously ill, she kept it from the author in order not to worry about it. Obviously lying down, I got up when I heard the author's footsteps. Later, the author learned that one of her lungs had rotted a big hole. Her fearless spirit and love for her husband are touching.

Reflection on the dead woman 2 Zhu Ziqing's "The Woman Who Died" is about his wife's efforts to die for her and her children, and her feelings are naturally revealed, simple and pure.

"Modest, time flies. In the blink of an eye, you have been dead for three years. I don't know how many times things have changed in these three years, but you may not have noticed them. I know your children are your first concern, and then me. Children and I share your world equally. You are like this in Japan. If you know it after you die, I want to come back. " A woman's heart is always filled with her husband and children, only ignoring herself.

I remember seeing Bi Shumin's When Women Enjoy, which is a similar scene. When they really begin to remember that they need to enjoy themselves, their beautiful faces are no longer tall and straight, even the best clothes can't wear beauty, their teeth are loose, and they can't eat hard food anymore. They devoted themselves to the whole family. ...

"You changed the gold bracelet to help me pay my tuition, and told me to pay you back later. I won't pay you back until you die. You suffered a lot in my family, and you endured it because of my family. It's all for me, I know. That time, I resigned from a middle school in my hometown and left. My family laughed at you for leaving. Go there! I have to bite the bullet and go to your house. That's your house, like an freezer. You lived in the cellar for three months. I can easily get you out so that we can save you both. This is how small families are organized. Although you are not a rich girl, you have been spoiled since childhood. As a housewife, you have to do everything. You actually did it and sat down happily. " This shows that Zhu Ziqing's wife is very modest to her husband and children, works hard and pays silently, revealing gratitude and nostalgia between the lines.

"In just twelve years, you have more worries than others for a lifetime; Modesty, how can you stand up like that? You bear all my responsibilities and crush you; How can I be worthy of you! " . "In the past twenty years, you have suffered a lot for me, but you haven't had a good life for a few days. We have lived together for less than five years. No matter how bad the life is, whether it is separation or reunion, you have never lost your temper with me, or even complained. _ _ _ Don't complain about me, even if you don't complain about your life. " What kind of state is this as a wife? She didn't blame her husband in those difficult days. She is wholeheartedly with her family. Zhu Ziqing made every reader cry with his sincere feelings for her.

Thoughts on Reading "To My Dead Wife" 3 "To My Dead Wife" is a lyric prose written by Zhu Ziqing to his dead wife. Zhu Ziqing and Wu Zhongqian have been married for twelve years. Three years after Wu Zhongqian died of illness, he wrote this article with sadness to express his mourning for his dead wife.

The first word "money" in the article is natural, peaceful and simple, and Zhu Ziqing's love for his wife is gradually revealed from this word. In "To My Dead Wife", when the author expresses his condolences, he neither beats his chest nor throws himself on the ground, but recounts in detail what happened to his dead wife before her death and recalls her kindness to herself and her children in the past two years. He remembered her hard work, housework, washing and cooking, and refused to rest even if she was confined; She is kind, and all four children are raised by her alone. She is not partial to children at all, regardless of the size of men and women, she loves them equally. She has no selfish idea of raising children to prevent old age, but only desperately loves them. /kloc-for 0/2 years, she didn't "think about herself" for her children, but always "tried her best" until she was destroyed and still worried about them on her deathbed; She is virtuous and shares the hardships of life for her husband. When she fled, she did not forget her husband's big box of books. She is always unwilling to be kind to herself. "She always concealed her illness, never spoke, and struggled to get up." When she found that "a big hole had rotted in her lung", she still couldn't live without her children, and she refused to spend money and rest, and finally died.

"To My Dead Wife" is touching because it is written in detail. When describing his wife's various good deeds, the author often grasps some detailed expressions and actions to make her beautiful personality more prominent. For example, she talked about meticulous care for children. "When you hear crying at night, you should listen with your ears open, and if you have more time, you should go and see it." These specific actions and image descriptions make every word of the article saturated with the flavor of the author.

In the last paragraph of the article describing the grave, the author did not speak passionately, did not act strongly, did not grieve, did not shed tears, but described it in a calm whisper. However, what kind of pain is contained in this quiet complaint. Those "you" from the bottom of my heart are more important than a word, which runs through the whole emotion. It is really a word and a tear, which is unsightly to read.

Zhu Ziqing's "For My Dead Wife" reminds me of Ba Jin's "Remembering Xiao Shan", which is also very touching. These two articles written for the deceased wife both embody the words "caring for each other, caring for each other * * *", and both highlight the word "truth". They write articles with true feelings and touch people with true feelings, so the articles are full of charm and impressive.

Today, regardless of the progress of the times or the innovation of ideas, women who are praised are often either talented women or virtuous women.

I have read an article "Jiangchengzi" by Su Shi before, which is a lament for his wife's death for ten years. "Don't think about it, I'll never forget it", "I don't care about each other, only tears flow for a thousand lines" and so on. Moreover, his ci is exquisitely conceived, combining dreams, reality and the future with time and space. For example, "I dream of coming home suddenly at night." Xiao Xuan window, dress up ".

Zhu Ziqing's To His Dead Wife is an essay expressing his mourning for the death of his first wife, Wu Zhongqian, for three years. Different from Su Shi's style, the author's writing style is not so ups and downs, language and rhetoric are not so gorgeous, and there is no shouting. Just use simple language to explain his wife's selfless maternal love and love for herself. The word "money" at the beginning leads to the following words. A series of ordinary trifles are enumerated, which gradually deepens the feelings of missing the dead daughter. There are many detailed descriptions in the article, such as "When you hear crying at night, you will listen with your ears pricked up" and "When you lie down clearly and hear my footsteps, you will sit up skid". Through language description and action description, we can see a virtuous, kind and traditional female image in China.

Some people say that this heartfelt "To My Dead Wife" is a love hymn of Mr. Zhu Ziqing and Mr. Wu Zhongqian, which describes Mr. Zhu Ziqing's selfless maternal love and wife affection for his dead wife, and has soaked his deep sorrow and memory. However, I also saw the other side. There is no doubt that we really saw a gentle and honest woman who gave everything for her family. In order to take care of the children, she ignored her health and provoked the burden of protecting the whole family in the war. She is in poor health, but she still keeps fighting, as the article says; "You are in poor health", "You spent a lot of time on my books", "You changed your gold bracelet to help me pay my tuition" and so on. From a woman's point of view, I can't help shouting for Wu Zhongqian. Although in the society at that time, the status of women was still dominated by men, as an intellectual, why did he leave home to study when he knew that his wife was in poor health, his life was suffering, and everything was for himself? Make her so tired? You said, "In just 12 years, you have more troubles than others all your life" because of shame. Eun-modest, how can you stand up like that? You took all my responsibilities and crushed you. How can I deserve you! "feelings! Thinking is one thing, but how to do it?

When I was moved by this essay, as an individual, I cried foul for Wu Zhongqian. Maybe she is unyielding, but I feel wronged for her?