How to respond to the elder's urging marriage with high emotional intelligence?

"urging marriage" can be said to be a social topic. Every year, most people are urged, and those who have never met have probably heard of the pressure brought by "urging marriage". No matter how good the food is on the table, everyone's topic will never be separated from their own "life events" at family gatherings on holidays. They just started to say hello, and when they bowed their heads and replied to a message, they could hear everyone discussing whether to get married this year or next year. Reading urges homework, work urges business, and when I get home, my parents and friends urge me to get married, which gives me a headache. Let's share with you how to respond to the marriage of elders with high emotional intelligence without losing courtesy.

Copywriter who was urged to get married:

1, less money and more things are far from home. Getting married is really urgent.

2. Never get married, and have no partner in old age. If you get married, you may not live to be old.

I asked my mother if it was okay not to get married.

Mom only said: If there are fireworks outside, the smell of liberating neighbors overflows and the family travels hand in hand in the street, you can hold back from crying.

I replied: I just think the fireworks outside make me read novels.

In the face of urging marriage reply:

1. The mortgage has not been paid off. If you don't help me share it, it should be no problem for you. I'll treat you to wedding banquets twice next year.

I have only one father, and I want to find someone like my father.

3. The person you like is not single. When TA is single, I will find TA to marry.

Marriage is a big event for everyone, and the one who urges the other party can't urge an "ideal son-in-law/daughter-in-law". If you enter rashly, you may also plant a bomb for marriage. The consequences of meeting the wrong person are often more serious than not getting married. With the growth of age, especially when people around me are getting married, I feel a little stressed, but I don't just come to get married. Just don't let yourself regret it, whether you are married or not.