Joke Collection Website - Public benefit messages - My girlfriend lent me 50 thousand and never paid it back. What should I do?

My girlfriend lent me 50 thousand and never paid it back. What should I do?

Let's just say it depends on whether you want to continue with your girlfriend. If you don't want to continue, you can ask the other person directly or indirectly and ask her if she has any money. If you want to continue and regard the other person as the girl you want to marry in the future, you'd better not. Finally, when talking about marriage, it can be said that this money is a bride price.

First of all, I think it is best for couples not to get involved in borrowing money, because in many cases, it is not easy for you to get it back after borrowing money. After all, you are a couple. To put it bluntly, some people may think that you don't have to pay back the money you borrowed. Your money is her money. She may think that when you are in love, your money already belongs to her, so she won't rush to pay you back after borrowing it. Maybe she also thinks that you don't have to pay it back at all.

Now that it has been involved in finance, she will be angry no matter how politely she asks for money at this time. I can't help it. Some girls are like this. If you lend her money, she may say that she will definitely pay it back, but if you ask her for money, she may think that we have nothing to do, and you let me pay you back, so she will definitely pay you back at this time, and she will be angry in her heart and eventually have a knot. So either you have to wait patiently for her to pay you back, or you have to ask her for money. She is angry, and then your relationship may be affected.

If you don't think it's okay to be apart, tell her that you need money badly now and ask her if she has it. If she does, she will transfer it to you first. Of course, you'd better not say it's only 50 thousand yuan. You can say more or less, but it can't be just 50 thousand yuan.

If you still want to marry her, you can't ask for or even mention the 50 thousand yuan, otherwise you may lose her. After all, your money is more important to her.