I am the one suing for divorce. I got a call from the court the other day. The court said I called my wife. She said she agreed to divorce and asked me when I would be free.

If she doesn't go to court, the court can judge by default. Moreover, at the mediation stage, the court asked your wife that she agreed to divorce. So as long as the court summons your wife to sign for it, it is her own business that she doesn't go to court on the day you don't go. The court will not judge by default because it thinks it is necessary. Don't worry, the court will give you a satisfactory answer then.