What do men think about breaking up for a week? A quick guide to saving your boyfriend.

? Break up, I really want to open his head and see what's going on. ? This is the idea that many women have after breaking up.

There are two reasons for curiosity:

1. I want to save it. ? He won't send me a message, and he won't come to me. He just doesn't want to get back together? Why didn't he come to save me? Can't you see that I broke up because I was angry? ?

2. Didn't put it down. ? It's been a long time since we broke up. I wonder if he will still think of me ... and I don't know what he's thinking now. Do I have another chance? ?

But the other side seems to have no waves. ? Are all men like this? Should I eat or sleep after breaking up? Can you still be in the mood, with friends in droves every day? ?

Here today, I want to tell you in a particularly serious and responsible way: it's not that men are not sad, it's that men are sad, and they have their own suspension devices when they leave the factory! You are tossing and turning because of the breakup, and most of them are sad? I haven't reacted yet.

Then why on earth is the emotional reaction of men delayed than that of women after breaking up? We should start with. Break up? Speaking of this matter.

? Break up? What does it stand for? Your early feelings have problems, and your mutual rational judgment ability has also been affected? Question? Weakened your deep feelings for each other? Mistakes and antipathy? , also reached the limit of patience, disappointment, really can't stand it.

Most men are not as emotional as women, so? Break up? In their eyes, it is more like time? Free? .

I finally don't have to coax anyone, and no one forces me to change this and that, let alone solve the contradictions and differences I can't figure out.

At this stage, they will zoom in infinitely? Dissatisfaction with your predecessor? They will feel particularly hard and depressed in this relationship. At this moment, they just want to release. How to release? Drinking or playing games all night, in short, having fun is enough, being high is enough, and no one can care about me anymore.

This is why many men are indifferent after breaking up, seemingly unaffected, as if they are not sad at all: they are enjoying this long-lost single time.

What happened to them? Break up? When will you be awakened? When will they think of their predecessors and feel regret and reluctance?

According to my experience, it usually takes about 2-3 weeks to break up. ? Revenge drama? No longer brings pleasure. Release date? Had to end? Love inertia? Start making trouble.

What is this? Love inertia? ? A series of habits formed in love.

I have a consultant who is a typical representative. I have been in love with my ex for 2 years, living together 1 year. When we broke up, our ex moved away without saying anything.

? I felt nothing when she left. She used to argue that I was moving or something. This time she packed her suitcase and left, so I went out for a drink with my friends or something. In the past, when she was here, she was in charge of everything and had to go home before twelve o'clock. Otherwise, she called several times to urge her, and no one urged her. I still feel very free. Yesterday, I drank too much. ?

He told me that my heart thumped at that time, and my mind was full of my predecessor's good. When he was drunk, he helped him make hangover tea. His shirts are always clean and his home is in good order. Now, in addition to take-away boxes, there are instant noodles and instant bread.

Men's regrets come so late.

What's the point? Even if they regret it later, they won't admit it to you many times.

Why? Out of human feelings.

I miss you very much, I can't let you go, I want to continue this relationship, but I don't want to take the initiative and lack action.

Therefore, if you still want to recover your feelings with him, you must make good use of their psychology, seize this opportunity and prescribe the right medicine.

● What are you talking about? The right medicine? Before, I want to mention one thing in particular.

As I said before, men who just broke up have to go through a period of emotional release. I don't recommend that you frequently appear in each other's world during that period.

You see, he is enjoying being single. As soon as you show up, drag him back to the world of two people. If you yell at him, tell him that he will definitely be rejected.

So when we just broke up, we left one for each other? Weak relationship? Do you want to send messages too often, don't always update some negative or emotional dynamics, don't pester, it is very important to take care of your spiritual world.

This is? The right medicine? A very important premise: when the other person thinks of you and opens your dynamics, only to find that you have been living well since you broke up, will it upset his inner balance and let him enter faster? Miss you? Emotional climax.

Of course, you don't have to worry, do you? Release date? Will he move on? You know, men who just broke up are very cautious and happy. They will not easily put themselves in another department. Bound? inch

Let's talk about it next. How to calculate it? The right medicine? .

Appear reasonably at the right time. You can look at each other's various developments, or learn something about his status from the side of his friends. I saw you drinking with him the other day. How is he recently? He just never says anything. You should persuade him more. ?

Once you find that the other person is in a bad mood recently and has been thinking about you, you can find a reasonable excuse, such as asking him for help to get a courier, filling in the wrong address, or helping to receive a SMS verification code. In short, the reason should be very reasonable. When he needs you most and is in the highest mood, enter the arena and re-enter his world.

Of course, at this stage, you must pay attention to the frequency of your chat with him. You can't be too enthusiastic or show that I want to get back together with you. I can't bear to give up your wish. Can you play the role of a friend and send it to him? Signal? When you are talking, reply to the conversation from the perspective of an experienced person.

Let me give you an example. The other party sends you a message:? How's it going? ? You replied to him:? Not bad. How are you? He sent a message:? So-so/ok/ok. ? You can reply one more sentence:? I am really happy to see you like this, and I will be fine in the future. ? It not only gave him a signal that you care about, but also kept a sense of proportion and stood in a more objective angle.

Emotional restraint, you can communicate with each other more at this stage, but you should pay attention to avoiding what he passes on to you? Give up? Signal, always keep yourself close? High status? .

So how to do it specifically? You can recall the behavior of the other person when you first fell in love, which can make your brain make up a big drama. Chatting and chatting, people suddenly disappeared, and it took a few minutes to reply, saying? A little tired/in a general mood today? Then, without saying why, I fell asleep and sent a circle of friends to say that I would get together. There are other members of the opposite sex in the photo, which is close. I am very happy.

When you feel that he is nervous about you and keeps throwing questions at you, you can comfort each other in a targeted way. I just had something to do, so I went to work temporarily? /? Sorry, something happened yesterday. I didn't look at my cell phone. Nothing serious. I slept. I'm fine. /? I went to eat that dish with my friend and her boyfriend yesterday. You can try it with friends next time. Isn't that great? .

You have to let the other person feel that you have emotional interaction with you, but your comfort can't be too obvious and you can't notice it in the other person? On purpose? Modality, repeatedly provoke each other's mind, and then help him smooth.

To enhance the value of personal love, there is a quick way to stimulate a man to take the initiative: make him realize that you are his only choice.

When chatting, try to show the rich and positive side of life as much as possible, such as completing an arduous task, getting a reward, getting a promotion and salary increase, and finding a gym fitness instructor with good qualifications and teaching expertise. You can reflect these positive aspects in your chat with him, or on the dynamic panel visible to both parties, such as taking a selfie, and take the initiative to talk about the recent fitness achievements in the comment area.

Help him solve some problems. For example, when you are chatting, you feel that the other person is in a poor state recently, or he complains to you about his recent work. You can use your rational and logical judgment to give him some constructive opinions and suggestions, and give him some encouragement and comfort appropriately.

You just need to grasp one principle. The fundamental purpose of these things you want to do is to make him who can't let you go. He likes you more and depends on you more.

? High status? Vague, face-to-face implies that you have been in the dominant position in the previous stage. After a long time, you will give the other person some pressure and discomfort, so now you can try to give the other person some feedback appropriately.

For example, give some active care and greetings, put forward some requirements to the other party, and let the other party feel that you can help yourself. You care about him, and you make some demands on him. You've been running away. This can help the other party rebuild some confidence and increase your motivation.

Then reasonably create a face-to-face opportunity, which can be used as a thank you for his help. Invite him to dinner, reappear in front of the other person in the best way, make some ambiguous physical contact during the date, such as asking him to bring you a tissue, or order a food he used to eat, and casually mention it. You booked it for him.

During the conversation, create an atmosphere for him that you still know him well, but now you are not what you used to be. Now you have a steady stream of freshness.

? Possession? Start? Conquer? After the previous stages, what should your state be? Ambiguous, not full lover? Well, if you're worried? Get back together? If you open your mouth, and you can't grasp the rhythm in the future, you can try to create an opportunity to make him feel a sense of crisis: he already has potential competitors, and if he doesn't take the initiative, he may lose you.

After he can't help talking to you, don't show that you finally talked to me. I've been waiting for you for too long. You have to give the other person a feeling that you decided to get back together with him after careful consideration and evaluation, right? Conquer? Pleasure will make him less tired in the future and know how to cherish the feelings between you.

After all, redemption is a process of psychological game.

In this process, you need to make Libra with emotional imbalance return to stability.

In the future, love is actually the same.

Only a person's persistent love is doomed to be grinding, and feelings have to come and go before they have a chance to end.