I found out from the text messages on my father’s cell phone that my father was having an affair! What should I do?

First think about it calmly

Whether it is possible to judge that your dad is really having an affair based on the text messages on his cell phone

If it is unreliable, then there is no need to do that Be impatient

Slowly look for opportunities to verify again

Don’t tell your mother. As you said, your mother has already shouldered a lot of things. Solving this problem will definitely become a problem. Take your responsibility

Find an opportunity to let your dad know that you have read his text messages, or you can use his mobile phone to secretly send those text messages to your mobile phone and save them as evidence, but you cannot Use it as leverage to threaten your dad. But just let him know that you understand that he is having an affair, and you have evidence on hand. You also need to let him understand that you will not tell your mother. The meaning is very clear, just to let your father wake up on his own.

If there is no problem communicating with your dad, I believe you can have a long talk with him. Of course, don’t choose to do it at home, you can talk in a coffee shop outside or something else

Don't make your tone too formal or too casual, and most importantly, don't make him feel embarrassed.

As long as his "poisoning" is not too deep, I believe it can be redeemed

We are all adults. If there are some things that cannot be changed, then accept it.

Because you can choose to be better to your mother as a punishment for the heartless man, and he will feel uncomfortable

There is no problem in the world that cannot be solved, so you must pay attention to methods and strategies< /p>

Finally I wish you good luck

Don’t feel too sad and live every day happily