How to refuse to take the initiative to be a sister of a sorority?

If you don't want to accept being a sister in a sorority, you can try the following methods:

1. Frank communication: Have a frank dialogue with the other party and tell them your thoughts and feelings. You can say why you don't want to be a member of the sorority with them, or your expectations and views on our relationship. This will make the other party understand your position and ideas and avoid misunderstandings and unnecessary misunderstandings.

2. Respect each other's wishes: If the other party invites you to be a member of the sorority, but you don't want to accept it, respect each other's wishes and politely refuse. You can express that you are honored by the other party's invitation, but you need to think about it, or tell the other party that you have other plans and arrangements and can't accept it immediately.

In short, no matter what method is adopted, we should respect each other's wishes and feelings and handle this matter in a peaceful and friendly way.