What does it mean that girls are slow to reply to messages?

Girls are slow to reply to messages: First, she doesn't want to chat with you!

Second, chat with others, I don't have time to talk to you!

Third, I may be busy with the work at hand!

There must be a reason why girls appear and reply to messages slowly. For example, I am introverted and don't like chatting, or I don't know what to talk about. Or busy with work. , it is possible.

I have encountered this situation more than once and had personal experience:

Sydney is my current girlfriend, or my second girlfriend. Her personality is rather wooden and introverted, and she doesn't like to talk much at ordinary times. Especially online, I hardly take the initiative. I only contact her when I miss her.

She has one characteristic, that is, she has a good temper, is gentle, speaks slowly, and replies slowly when chatting. Sometimes I ask her what are you doing? She said she was looking at her cell phone. I said to chat with me for a while. She said it was ok. I said it more than ten times before she slowly replied. I have a short temper, and sometimes I get angry, but she said that she typed slowly and had work to finish, so after a long time, I got to know her well, so it was not so troublesome.

In fact, every girl's temper, personality and living habits are different. Some like chatting, others don't. No matter how fast the other person replies, you should give the other person all the understanding and ask why. Don't get angry, lose your temper, or even have conflicts because of this trivial matter. In this way, no matter in feelings or friendship, it will not work.

What I'm trying to say is that in your situation. Maybe the girl is busy at work, because she has to finish the corresponding tasks every day, so she doesn't have time to chat, but because of your face, I'm embarrassed to refuse you directly, for fear of affecting your mood, so I reply slowly.

Therefore, you should be more understanding and tolerant, instead of complaining or even getting angry. Only in this way, when you get along with girls, the other party can appreciate your sincerity and be willing to associate with you.