Can a husband and wife quarrel and say divorce?

Don't be too contemptuous when a woman says "divorce" because of such a trivial quarrel. Women wouldn't say such hurtful things if they weren't disappointed in life.

As a man, we need to reflect on whether our actions hurt women.

Maybe your words are too heavy to make her feel hurt; Or your attitude makes her feel that you don't care about her at all; Your words don't respect her family enough, and so on, which will be the reason for a woman to say divorce.

When there is a conflict because of a small matter, women are generally angered in the quarrel, not because of the incident itself. So divorce at this time is just dissatisfaction with your attitude.

2. Arguing about money and saying "divorce"

The most realistic contradiction in marriage is the distribution of money. Not every couple can really treat each other as their own.

So after many people get married, the money is still in their own hands. At this time, the two sides still think that the other party's money belongs to this family, and they need to discuss it with themselves when spending money.

However, if the money is not concentrated and there are no rules and regulations, there will definitely be private use.

Buy some luxury goods you like, secretly give your parents more money, go out to eat, drink and have fun with friends, and so on. If you don't communicate in advance, you will have dissatisfaction in your partner's heart.

Especially women care most about feelings. If you spend money not telling her, she must think you don't love her. Since there is no love, "divorce".

3. Say "divorce" because of feelings.

Love has a shelf life. If the two sides still don't take the initiative to manage and maintain this intimate relationship after the fresh-keeping period, it will gradually make the husband and wife become strangers and have no desire to care for each other, take care of each other, be considerate and comfort.

A cold family will make people lose the desire to persist. At this time, the woman proposed "divorce" and the problem was serious.

Maybe she doesn't want to live in such a depressed atmosphere in the next few decades, and really wants to divorce you.

The quarrel was only the fuse, which gave her the courage to ask for a divorce.

4. Say "divorce" because of sexual disharmony.

According to a survey by Professor Pan Suiming, the "first sexologist in China", women with disharmony in sexual life are more likely to cheat.

In fact, we can use this data as the basis of analysis. Those women who put forward "divorce" because of disharmony in sexual life are obviously not satisfied physically and do not want to reconcile at all.

This is also one of the most common reasons for the divorce of couples after 80' s and 90' s.

Nowadays, in an open society, divorce is no longer an embarrassing thing, because divorce is not shameful because of disharmony in sexual life, so women will stop loss in time when life is not satisfactory.

5. Say "divorce" because of extramarital affairs

In this case, the woman is contradictory. It is very likely that she is still in love and doesn't really want to divorce, but she can't accept the fact of betrayal, saying that divorce is often in a state of injustice, sadness and anger. If you can apologize in time to coax her, there is still a chance to change the ending.