Grateful to meet-thank my mentor.

I have always felt that I am a very lucky person.

I was born and raised in the countryside, and I also work in the countryside. I have deep feelings for the countryside, and I love this land. However, I have to admit that the countryside has its own limitations, or that the limitations of parents' thinking consciousness, which have never left the mountains, also indirectly affect my cognition of the world. Like me, all the children there go to primary school in the village, junior high school in the town, senior high school in the county, and then go to a university with unknown names. Not afraid of jokes, when we were in primary school, we all naively thought that there were only two universities in the world, one was Tsinghua and the other was Peking University. So, I went on the rampage all the way, but fortunately I met many teachers who helped me and guided me enthusiastically at every stage. Mr. Peng, a Chinese teacher in primary school, let me find a sense of accomplishment in writing. Mr. Gong, a Chinese teacher in junior high school, helped me open the door to the world of poetry. Mr. Wang, a math teacher, made me fall in love with math class. Mr. Zhang, a math teacher in senior high school, told me, "Don't be lost in the external environment, but stick to what I should do." The English teacher helped me find confidence in my poor English. Teacher Sun of the university has always guided and encouraged me. If I hadn't met Mr. Zhang in high school, I might not have gone to college; If it weren't for Mr. Sun from the university, I might not have gone to graduate school. Thanks to the mentors who appeared in my lush years, and thanked them for their selfless help inadvertently and inadvertently.

when it comes to work, I should thank my graduate tutor, Mr. Gao. The lens returned to February 215, when the results of the postgraduate entrance examination could already be found, and everyone was busy contacting the tutor. I sent emails to three doctoral supervisors, and only Mr. Gao replied "Welcome to apply", and then I applied. Later, the interview, physical examination, just waiting for admission.

I remember seeing Mr. Gao for the first time. I was a little surprised. Such an amiable old man really made people like and feel at ease. Later, I learned that I was a close disciple of Miss Gao. Unlike most tutors, Mr. Gao taught us not how to do experiments, publish articles and apply for patents, but how to be a man and how to improve our learning ability. When most students are busy reading literature in the study room, we make jiaozi, cook porridge and play the game of "werewolf killing" at Teacher Gao's house. When most students do experiments in the laboratory all night, we attend academic forums in Wuhan and Kunming. While most students are writing articles in the laboratory, we are organizing the "Western Poultry Forum" ... < P > It can be said that my graduate life is different from others, and the graduate life of Mr. Gao's students is more free and easy, natural and free. Last semester, I visited the campus, took classes and ran; After a semester of research, the feeding experiment lasted for more than 4 months; Graduate two formally did experiments and wrote articles last semester; In the second semester of Graduate School, under the teacher's reminder, I worked as a supervisor in the graduate office for half a year and worked as an English internship editor of a magazine. Last semester, I taught a school; Later, under the recommendation of my tutor, I went to a securities company in Shanghai for an internship. During this period, several things happened that influenced me not for my whole life, but at least for my half life. This is exactly where I am most grateful to Mr. Gao.

In the third year of graduate school, many students began to be busy looking for jobs. Most students should feel the same kind of entanglement, helplessness and loss. There are only a few roads in front of us: studying for further study, working in enterprises, and going to institutions. At that time, my English article had not been accepted, so I didn't plan to study PhD, but my sister from the same laboratory went to a very powerful laboratory in Turin University to study PhD, and I somewhat thought of going abroad. Later, I talked to my tutor about reading PhD. I talked for a long time in Mr. Gao's office, and I was particularly moved by a sentence. Teacher Gao said, "Xiao Liu, no matter what you finally decide to do, your tutor will support you and I believe you can do it well. For economic reasons, the teacher can solve it. Your tutor has nothing, and the tuition and living expenses are still affordable. The salary of half a life is always a number in the card. Only when you spend it is your own money. " At that time, Mr. Gao also recommended several tutors to me. In fact, I forgot who he told me. Just remember, when I came out of the office, I was full of emotion.

another thing happened during the substitute class. This part-time teacher's job was introduced by a senior sister. At that time, there was no tutor. When I told my tutor, the contract and so on had been signed, which was considered as acting first. To my surprise, the tutor was not only not angry, but also strongly supported. Mr. Gao did all the work and told me that he had something to tell him. He had a good relationship with that school and often had academic exchanges. If there was anything inconvenient, he told him not to be wronged himself and so on. You know, at that time, we saw many tutors who squeezed students online. Perhaps the original intention of the instructors is good, just thinking, time is tight, in order to produce results. However, in this relaxed environment, we are not worse than other laboratories. Each of the brothers and sisters who graduated one year earlier than me has more than one article. I myself, before and after graduation, both articles were accepted. We usually hold meetings with more participants than other teams, and we have never been anxious because of the shortage of research funds. To some extent, our team is United and excellent than most teams. The biggest feature of students who go out from our laboratory is their high emotional intelligence and their ability to behave themselves. What Mr. Gao teaches us is the method of dealing with people and the ability to keep learning. At this point, I am particularly lucky to meet such a mentor, giving us plenty of free space, but always concerned about whether our general direction has deviated from the goal. It is Mr. Gao's seemingly indifferent concern that makes our students who graduated from the laboratory independent, behave in a proper way and have high comprehensive quality. Some teachers commented on the students in our lab, "The students in this team are all-round talents". In fact, after studying for so many years, the knowledge we really use may be those you have never seen before. For most of our non-scientific and non-professional people, learning how to study is the most important thing.

after a semester as a substitute, I found that I didn't like the profession of teacher, even though my teacher qualification certificate had been tested. However, I feel that I won't be a teacher. I'm lost and at a loss again. It was Miss Gao who gave me a hand again. He told me that he had a relative who opened a company in Shanghai and asked me to practice for a period of time to see if I liked that kind of work and could not adapt to that pace of life. No matter whether you go to this job or not, feel it first and try it. So, I ran into Shanghai on the rampage, prepared myself for "a strong man will never return", and thought about studying, studying and studying again in a completely strange field. Xu teacher, who took me, is the most experienced and professional teacher in the team. The boss and vice president of the company are also often concerned about asking me if I adapt to the current rhythm and telling me not to worry, everything will take its time; My little brother and sister around me are also constantly encouraging and supporting me. In that month, although things went wrong, such as my mobile phone was stolen, I was cheated by taking a taxi, and I was laughed at for buying things, my colleagues helped me feel the warmth of spring and even summer in this strange and almost heartless city.

After staying here for almost a month, I feel that I don't like this kind of life. The tall office building, elegant professional suit, orderly desk, thumping high heels, mellow coffee that I once missed so much no longer attract me. I feel that this is not the life I really want, or that it is not a job that gives me a home and a sense of accomplishment. So, I told Miss Gao that I didn't like this pace of work, and I wanted to try another job. Thinking about it is to take exams such as public institutions and civil servants. But at that time, it was already January 13th, and there were still two months before the examination of public institutions. Occasionally, I mentioned to my tutor that I was admitted to Selected Graduates last year. My tutor casually said, you can try it. That's what I am. I want to try everything, never considering the consequences. Then I bought a ticket back to Xi 'an. It took me less than 24 hours from deciding to resign to completing all the formalities and returning to Xi 'an. In this way, I am really an activist.

On the day I returned to school, I started the preparation mode. First, prepare for the examination of public institutions. After finishing the exam on March 22nd, I felt that I didn't do well in the exam, and I began to read the information of Selected Graduates's exam again. In fact, it didn't take much time to prepare for this written test. Maybe, somehow, this is what I should do. My written test score is 1 points higher than the score line! When I found the written test results, I had just handed in the political examination materials of public institutions from the municipal government building. I took the fourth place in the written test of public institutions, and it is almost impossible to have two people. The written test results of the selected tune are not bad. I briefly talked to my tutor about the situation, and the tutor said, prepare with both hands, maybe it will all be done. Although the final total score of the institution was third, it was not accepted, but it also gained an interview experience. Later, before attending the selection interview, Mr. Gao sent me a text message saying, "Just relax, girl, you will be fine." I don't know if the teacher's wishes were too sincere, or for other reasons, but I finally passed, even though the process was frightening, even though I was almost countered by someone who scored 9 points less than me in the written test. But the end result is still good, which is enough. Now writing here, it's still a little uneasy.

Maybe it's not easy to get it, so I cherish this job. I have long heard countless stories of grassroots suffering and no future from my predecessors in various group chats, but I am still unmoved. At the same time, I also prepared for the worst. Perhaps my expectations are relatively low. After joining the company, I found that all the encounters were surprises.

After I joined the company, I talked to my tutor on the phone several times. My tutor still said that I was in a good mood, told me that the optimistic girl would not be too bad luck, and warned me to bear hardships, keep the bottom line, be calm and not impulsive, and it would only get better and better in the future.

as it turns out, it is. After going to work, the leading colleagues in the district and the town are caring and attentive, patiently guiding, knowing everything and saying everything. Fortunately, in Guo Xing Zhuang, my village, I met my work guide, the two first secretaries of our village, who are very enthusiastic, thoughtful and capable. They are people who really do practical things for the people. I don't know whether they pity me or cherish me. They take special care of me. Sometimes, I think, so much for my sister. The members of the two committees of the village are also very kind to me. They are kind-hearted, warm and generous, hardworking and brave. They bring me warm spring breeze, full of emotion and heavy responsibility. I live in the town government, and the two first secretaries take pains every morning, remembering my seemingly cumbersome little tail, and go to town to pick me up in the village, and after a busy day's work at night, dragging their tired bodies, they send me back to town. They usually visit the village, go to the construction site to understand the progress of work, hold meetings, etc., and also take me with them. During the break, they will tell me all kinds of interesting stories (true or false, I can't tell them clearly, anyway, I take them seriously). What is worth showing off is that the cooking skills of the two secretaries are excellent, and my level can only help to wash the dishes. It can be said that in the past two weeks, except for being upset by the sun every day, the rest are happy, happy and satisfied.

If I hadn't met Mr. Gao, I probably wouldn't have entered the big family of Selected Graduates, met those lovely big brothers and sisters from the Party and Government Office, the Organization Office and the Commission for Discipline Inspection, met the United, enthusiastic and sincere members of the two committees in Guo Xing Zhuang, and even met the two first secretaries who might affect me for a long time or even my life.

On the way of growing up, I thank you for meeting me, for your help, and for the amiable Miss Gao who always dials my phone, even though the phone rings and hangs up every time.