I want to send a message to a boy, but he seldom sends me messages on his own initiative. Should I send it to him?

Do you like him between men and women? If it is, then don't send it, it doesn't make any sense. They say you can chase as long as you like, but have you ever thought about what you are like in his heart? If you are sure that you have a certain position in his heart, you can give it to him and maybe get married. If you are not sure, don't send it. He doesn't even take the initiative to send you a message, which means it's not very important to contact you or not. Or he hasn't risen to the position of someone he can miss in his heart. There is no need to feel sorry for yourself. That will make you think a lot!