How to become a successful woman?

Good habits for career success are as follows:

(1) Good habits of positive thinking?

How to develop the habit of positive thinking? When you are in the process of achieving your goals and face specific work and tasks, you remove the word "impossible" from your mind and replace it with "how can I", it can be said that you have developed Get into the habit of positive thinking. ?

(2) Good habits for efficient work?

Efficient work starts in the office: ?

1) Understand your daily energy period. Usually people work most efficiently around 9 a.m. and can finish the most difficult work at this time. ?

2) Concentrate one or two hours a day to handle the urgent work at hand, without answering phone calls, meetings, or interruptions. This can get twice the result with half the effort. ?

3) Reply to important emails immediately and discard unimportant ones. If they are allowed to accumulate in piles, it will only take more time. ?

4) Make a task list and record all projects and agreements in the efficiency manual. Be sure to keep a productivity manual handy to help you stay on track. Only about 5% of a person's daily behavior is non-habitual, while the remaining 95% is habitual.

5) Learn to use fragmented time efficiently. Use it to read something or conceive of a document. Don't be in a daze or daydream. ?

6) Reduce the time it takes to return calls. If all you need to convey is a message, send a text message. ?

7) Be aware of possible phone calls, so that you can quickly find the various materials you need after receiving the expected phone call, without having to rummage around at the time. ?

8) Learn the skills to search efficiently on the Internet to save time on Internet searches. Collect the websites you visit frequently so you can find them anytime. ?

9) Use the Internet to simplify business travel arrangements. Most hotels and routes can be checked and booked online. ?

10) Delegate work to others whenever circumstances permit. Doing everything yourself will tire you out and never get it done. Ask a colleague to help, or ask an assistant to put in the extra effort. ?

11) Make a flexible schedule so you can take some time off when you need it. For example, work overtime at noon and then leave the office an hour early to go to the gym, or work 10 hours a day and then use Friday to go to appointments and see the doctor. ?

12) Make a to-do list for the next day before leaving the office so that you can do your best the next morning.

Everything has a plan:?

The habit of planning is equal to the success of the plan. ?

Make a plan for everything. There was an American named John Goddard. When he was 15 years old, he made a list of things he wanted to do in his life, which was called "life." Checklist". In this orderly list, he gave himself 127 specific goals to conquer. For example, explore the Nile River, climb the Himalayas, read Shakespeare, write a book, etc. 44 years later, with superhuman perseverance and extraordinary courage, he finally achieved his 106 goals step by step as planned during the arduous struggle against fate, and became an accomplished film producer, writer and orator. ?

There is an old saying in China: "If you don't have enough to eat, you won't have enough to drink. If you don't have a plan, you will suffer from poverty." Try to do things according to your own goals and do things in a plan. This can improve work efficiency and quickly achieve goals. ?

(3) Develop a good habit of exercising?

Enhance health awareness?

Planning a habit is equal to planning success. If you want to achieve a career, you must have a healthy body; if you want to be healthy, you must first have health awareness.

I know a university teacher who has always been in good health. Earlier, we used to play together. When talking about everyone's physical condition, he said that his kidneys occasionally feel slight discomfort. We once advised him to go to the hospital for a check-up, but he relied on his health and ignored it. It was not until he felt more pain later that his lover forced him to go for a check-up. The diagnosis was advanced kidney cancer.

Although he underwent surgery, chemotherapy and other treatment measures, his life could not be saved and he died at the age of 39. Previously, he had been depressed due to unsatisfactory housing assignments and job evaluations at school. His illness was related to his emotions. However, if he had a strong awareness of health care and went for an early check-up, it was entirely possible to prevent it and eliminate the problem before it started. Poor awareness of health care cost him his life. ?

How to implement health care awareness? First, you must have the awareness of life first and health first. With this awareness, you will treat your body and mind well, and will not abuse your body at will. The second is to pay attention to mastering some relevant knowledge. The third is to have a response mechanism to your body: go to the hospital for physical examinations regularly; if you feel uncomfortable in your body, you should go to the hospital for examination as soon as possible; if conditions permit, you can ask a health doctor to provide advice on your health. advice.

▲Planned exercise?

The importance of physical exercise has been increasingly accepted by people, but I feel that many people only stay in the awareness stage of paying attention. And there is a lack of corresponding action. I believe that exercise should not only be carried out purposefully to prevent and treat the corresponding diseases that can be caused by specific working postures, but also should be regarded as a kind of fun and develop a habit of exercise. ?

Because of my work needs, I often deal with customers and rush around to deal with emergencies. This plays a role in exercising to a certain extent. At the same time, I also insist on swimming once or twice a week. , to ensure that you have enough energy to do work and enjoy life. ?

Physical exercise, just like striving for success, requires persistence. ?

In addition to the above two points, paying attention to dietary structure, reasonable meals, and paying attention to developing good hygiene habits are all components of developing healthy habits. ?

In short, health is the capital of "revolution" and the guarantee of success. Be healthy and achieve yourself.

(4) A good habit of continuous learning?

The era of "everything is inferior, only reading is good" has passed, but developing a good habit of reading will never Obsolete. ?

Harry Truman is a famous president in American history. He did not go to college, ran a farm and later a cloth shop, experienced many failures, and was already in his fifties when he finally held a government position. But he has a good habit of reading constantly. Years of reading made Truman very knowledgeable. He read volume after volume of the Encyclopedia Britannica and all the novels of Charles Dickens and Victor Hugo. In addition, he also read all the plays and sonnets of William Shakespeare. ?

Truman's extensive reading and the wealth of knowledge he gained enabled him to successfully lead the United States through the end of World War II and quickly bring the country into post-war prosperity. He understands that reading is the foundation for becoming a first-class leader. Reading also enables him to make correct decisions quickly when faced with various controversial and difficult issues. For example, in the 1950s he resisted pressure to fire General Douglas MacArthur, a beloved war hero. ?

His creed is: "Not all scholars are leaders, but every leader must be a scholar."?

Former US President Clinton said: In 19 In the 21st century, a small piece of land was the capital to start a business; in the 21st century, the gift that people most expect to receive is no longer land, but a scholarship from the federal government. Because they know that mastering knowledge is a key to the future. "?

Every successful person has good reading habits. The CEOs of the world's 500 largest companies read about 30 magazines or books at least every week, and can read more than 100 books a month. Magazines, more than 1,000 are read in a year?

CEOs of the world's 500 largest companies read about 30 magazines or book information at least every week, and can read more than 100 magazines in a month. Read more than 1,000 books. If you read for 15 minutes every day, you may finish a book in a month.

You have read at least 12 books in one year. In 10 years, you will have read a total of ***120 books! Think about it, with just 15 minutes a day, you can easily read 120 books, which can help you become richer in every aspect of your life. If you spend twice as much time every day, that is, half an hour, you can read 25 books a year - that's 250 books in 10 years! ?

I think that everyone who wants to be successful before the age of 35 must read at least one book and two magazines every month.

(5) What is a good habit of humility?

There is no reason for a person not to be humble. Relative to human knowledge, any erudite can only fail. ?

In his later years, the famous scientist Faraday was prepared to be awarded a knighthood by the country in recognition of his outstanding contributions in physics and chemistry, but he refused. After Faraday retired, he still often went to the laboratory to do some chores. One day, a young man came to the laboratory to do experiments. He said to Faraday, who was sweeping the floor, "They must give you a lot of money for this job, right?" The old man smiled and said, "I can use a little more." "Then what's your name?" Old man? "Michael Faraday." The old man replied calmly. The young man exclaimed: "Oh, my God! You are the great Mr. Faraday!" "No," Faraday corrected, "I am an ordinary Faraday."?

Humility is not only a virtue , is a kind of wisdom in life, a strategy to protect oneself by belittling oneself.

(6) Good habit of self-control?

Any successful person has extraordinary self-control. ?

During the Three Kingdoms period, Shu Prime Minister Zhuge Liang personally led the Shu army in the northern expedition to Cao Wei. Wei general Sima Yi adopted a truce with the city and ignored Ge Liang. He believed that if the Shu army came from afar to attack, the backup supplies would be insufficient. As long as it was delayed and the Shu army's strength was consumed, they would be able to seize the opportunity and defeat the enemy. ?

Zhuge Liang was well aware of the benefits of Sima Yi's silent tactics. He sent troops to the city several times to scold the formation in an attempt to anger the Wei soldiers and lure Sima Yi out of the city for a decisive battle, but Sima Yi remained stationary. Zhuge Liang then provoked the general and sent someone to send Sima Yi a piece of women's clothes. He also wrote a letter saying: "Zhongda dare not go out to fight. He is no different from a woman. If you are a shameless man, go out and fight the Shu army." , otherwise, you will put on this woman's clothes."?

"A scholar cannot be killed." Although this letter full of insults and contempt angered Sima Yi, it did not make the scheming one angry. Sima Yi changed his mind, suppressed his anger, stabilized the morale of the army, and waited patiently. ?

After several months of stalemate, Zhuge Liang unfortunately died of illness in the army. The Shu army was leaderless and retreated quietly. Sima Yi won without a fight. ?

People who cannot suppress their emotions often hurt others and themselves. If Sima Yi could not bear the moment of anger and went out of the city to fight, then perhaps history would be rewritten. ?

In modern society, people are facing more and more temptations. If people lack self-control, they will be led by the temptation and deviate from the track of success.

(7) Good habits of humor?

Some people say that men need humor as much as women need a beautiful face. ?

Men need humor, just like women need a pretty face. Lincoln, the 16th President of the United States, was ugly, but he never tabooed this. On the contrary, he often joked about his appearance humorously. While running for president, his opponents attacked him as duplicitous and scheming. Lincoln pointed to his face and said, "Let the public judge. If I had another face, would I use this one?" Another time, a congressman who opposed Lincoln walked up to Lincoln. He asked sarcastically: "I heard, President, that you are a successful self-designer?" "Yes, sir." Lincoln nodded and said, "But I don't understand how a successful designer could design himself like this." Looks like? "Lincoln used this method of humor to successfully resolve possible embarrassing and embarrassing situations many times.

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A man without humor is not necessarily bad, but a man who knows humor must be an excellent person, and a woman who knows humor is a rare animal.

(8) What is a good habit of smiling?

Smiling is a sign of generosity and calmness, and is also a passport for communication. ?

Hilton, the founder of the world-famous Hilton Hotel, finally discovered a simple, easy and cost-free business secret after years of exploration at the beginning of his business - smile. From then on, he asked all employees: No matter what difficulties the hotel itself encounters, the smile on the face of the waiter at the Hilton Hotel will always be the sunshine that belongs to the customers. This beam of "sunshine" finally won Hilton Hotels unanimous praise from all over the world. ?

In developed countries in Europe and the United States, people nod and smile when they meet, making people feel warm to each other. In China, if you smile at a woman on the street, you may be called "sick." Learn from Westerners and let us smile at each other. ?

From ancient times to the present, dedication is one of the most important qualities of all successful people.

(9) Good habits of dedication and joy in work

Dedication is the basic requirement for people who are eager to succeed in their work. A person who is not dedicated will find it difficult to succeed in the work he is engaged in. Make achievements. ?

There was a clerk named Archibald at the American Standard Oil Company, who did not attract any special attention at first. He has a particularly strong professionalism and pays attention to maintaining and promoting the company's reputation. When staying in a hotel on a long trip, he never forgets to write "Standard oil at four dollars per barrel" below his signature. When writing letters to relatives and friends, or even when typing receipts, he never forgets to write after signing. Those words. For this reason, his colleagues called him "Four Dollars a Barrel." Rockefeller, the company's chairman, found out about this. He invited Archibald to dinner and called on company employees to learn from him. Later, Archibald became the second chairman of Standard Oil.

3. What are the 9 bad habits that must be given up before the age of 35 to succeed?

Bad habits make success difficult to achieve. ?

Corresponding to establishing good habits is overcoming bad habits. It is difficult to establish good habits without breaking them or getting rid of bad habits. ?

Geddes, the king of Phrygia in ancient Greece, tied a string of knots on the yoke of his chariot in a very wonderful way. He predicted: Whoever can open this knot can conquer Asia. Until 334 BC, no one could untie the knot. At this time. When Alexander led his army into Asia Minor, he came to Geddes Knot and without thinking, he drew his sword and cut it. Later, he indeed occupied the Persian Empire, which was 50 times larger than Greece. ?

A child was cutting grass in the mountains and was accidentally bitten on the foot by a poisonous snake. The child was in unbearable pain, and the hospital was in a small town far away. The child did not hesitate to cut off the injured toe with a sickle, and then walked to the hospital with great pain. Although missing a toe, the child managed to survive with a brief period of pain. ?

To get rid of bad habits, you should have the spirit of Alexander, the decisiveness and courage of that child, completely get rid of bad habits, and let good habits lead you to success.

The following 9 bad habits you must get rid of:?

1) Frequently being late. Are you often late for work or meetings? Being late is the seed that causes resentment to your boss and colleagues. It conveys the message that you are a person who only thinks about yourself and lacks the spirit of cooperation. ?

2) Procrastination. Although you eventually get the job done, procrastinating makes you appear incompetent. Why is there a delay? If it is due to lack of interest, you should consider your career choice; if it is due to excessive pursuit of perfection, this will undoubtedly increase your delays at work. Social psychology experts say: Many people who procrastinate are afraid of taking risks and making mistakes. The fear of failure prevents them from starting. ?

3) Blame others. This is almost the most common label for losers.

When a person who wants to succeed encounters setbacks, he should calmly treat the problems he faces, analyze the reasons for failure, and then find a breakthrough to solve the problem. ?

4) Blindly please others. A truly competent employee should explain the problems in his job to his superiors and propose corresponding solutions, rather than just echoing the superiors' decisions. For managers, there should be strict rewards and punishments, and they should not be "nice gentlemen". Although this may temporarily please a few people, it will lose the support of the majority.

5) Spread rumors. Everyone is likely to be judged by others and will judge others, but if the gossip is about someone, it is best to stop the gossip. There is no airtight wall in the world. The rumors you spread today will be known to the parties sooner or later, so why bother to shoot yourself in the foot? Therefore, rumors stop with the wise. ?

6) Accusing and being mean to others. Everyone makes mistakes at work. When problems arise at work, they should be helped to solve them instead of just seeking perfection and blaming them. Especially when you are unable to do it yourself, asking your subordinates or others to meet these requirements can easily make people resentful. If things go on like this, this kind of person will have no prestige in the company. ?

7) Go back on your word. Frequent changes to things that have been determined will make it difficult for your subordinates or assisting employees to start. If you fail to fulfill the promises you make, you will lose credibility in front of everyone. It is difficult for such people to take on important responsibilities. ?

8) Arrogant and rude. Doing this does not make you look superior to others; on the contrary, it will arouse others' resentment. Because no one will tolerate others looking down on themselves. Arrogant and rude people have a hard time making good friends. Networking means wealth. If you develop this habit when you are young, I believe it will be difficult for you to succeed. ?

9) Follow the crowd. People can follow the crowd, but they can't be independent. If you habitually follow the crowd, you may form a fixed mindset and have no opinions of your own, or even if you do, you dare not express your own opinions. People without opinions will not succeed.