Men and women picket SMS

She means that she has grown up, but you haven't changed-that is, you are immature in disguise. Girls mature earlier than boys of the same age. She may know the pain of being a girlfriend and a mother.

In fact, the main reason why girls can't catch up is the low emotional intelligence. You can't give her a sense of security and meet her emotional needs. As a student, you can't show her feathers materially. In this case, how can people be attached to you?

The solution is ... let go of your feelings for a while. You spend your holidays working on the construction site for two days, handing out leaflets in the street on weekends, and finding a booth to help you for two hours after school-it doesn't matter whether you make money or not, let's talk about it first. Generally, there will be changes in one month and qualitative changes in two months. You will change your temperament because you have experience beyond your peers, and your personality will be relatively mature.

Then consider her whole person and evaluate the possibility between you, so that you can make a decision more easily. Whether you chase her or not, it's better that you can't catch her. At that time, if you couldn't catch her, you wouldn't chase her. Maturity is reflected in all aspects.

The above is the change of hardware, which means changing the inner self; Another idea to change the outside world is to learn how people with high emotional intelligence speak. There is a Japanese variety show called Policemen and Policemen, and the host Tian Cunchun is a classic object worth learning. Take time to watch that program, especially SP special programs, such as Devil's Message, Actress Stay at Home for One Night, etc. It will correct your understanding of girls to a certain extent-girls are human beings, and the essence of not being good at interacting with girls is not being good at interacting with people, otherwise, girls are also very easy to deal with.