No work, no grievances, only hard work …

I saw a video on the Internet recently, which was very distressing.

On the streets of Chongqing, a thin young mother was carrying her child and distributing leaflets to passers-by.

Because the child is still young, she has to stop to coax the child from time to time.

Although it was difficult, she kept trying.

Seeing this scene, many netizens lamented: "It is not easy to bottom out, and it is hard money."

But think about it, whose life is easy?

No matter what age, status or gender, everyone who lives in this world needs to face different bitterness, difficulties and pressures.

There is no easy money in all walks of life.

Someone once asked on the Internet: "Why is it so difficult to make money, and some people desperately want to make money?"

One of the most heartfelt answer said:

When life comes with illness, disaster and embarrassment, we will realize that it is too bad to have no money.

Therefore, only by working hard to make money can we make ourselves and our families live more decently.

In the dictionary of adults, there is never "easy", and everyone's life is mixed with tears and sweat.

Any valuable resources in the world need to be exchanged with money.

The foundation of our life is money.

An online survey shows that the average turnover period of post-95 generation is 7 months.

The top two reasons for leaving the company are "the leader scolds me and leaves if he is uncomfortable".

In a word, I can't stand being wronged at work.

But the host Lu Yu said:

"The workplace is not your home. Getting rewards, growth, experience and connections in the workplace is the key. As for friendship, warmth and the feeling of home, they are just icing on the cake. "

This also comes from Lu Yu's own work experience.

In his senior year, Lu Yu got an internship with CCTV.

Her job is translation, editing and dubbing. Besides, she has to do some extra trivial work.

On the day of getting paid, the production director said to her:

"The service fee for each program is 600 yuan, but you are still a student, so we can only give you 300 yuan for each program."

Lu Yu was very uncomfortable. His working ability and level are no worse than others. Why is his salary lower than others?

However, resentment is fleeting.

Because she firmly believes that the starting platform is far more important than the 300 yuan.

So, she put away her emotions and continued to do her work.

After she became famous, some people said that her emotional intelligence was low, while others said that her presiding ability was not good, but she never backed down, just endured pressure and accusations and insisted on doing what she should do.

Mo Yan once said: "Life is doomed to suffer many grievances. And the more successful a person is, the more wronged he will be. "

People who look great now have suffered, shed tears and suffered grievances that you may not imagine.

It is also common to be wronged at work.

Maybe it's the difficulty of work, maybe it's the misunderstanding of colleagues, maybe it's the unreasonable leadership. ......

Think of that sentence:

"The salary you earn includes not only the work you actually do, but also the grievances and unfair treatment you need to bear."

Injuries are inevitable. Only by swallowing grievances and getting through them can you earn the money you want.

There is a discussion in Zhihu: "If you are wronged at work, should you cry in front of your superiors?"

One of the highest praise replied:

"Superior, of course, know that you have pressure, who has no pressure, but the superior needs to pay attention to your achievements this time and the possible achievements next time.

Instead of spending time arguing, spend time proving yourself in your next job. "

In the workplace, there will never be a situation of "sympathizing with you because you have been wronged, not letting you work and giving you money directly"; No one will take care of you because you are fragile.

In "Wonderful offer 1", Jerry Lee, an intern, knows that her professional ability and internship experience are not as good as others.

So he goes out early and comes back late every day, hoping to make up for his ability with hard work, and often works overtime until the early morning to prepare materials.

But at the scene of the debate, something went wrong.

He recalled his efforts these days and couldn't help crying.

This scene made the guests in the program feel very distressed.

However, Papi sauce said from the boss's point of view:

"Every time I meet something like employees crying, I will give comfort, but I still feel that these newcomers are not mature enough and have no ability to withstand pressure."

Everyone is wandering in his own world, and grievances and emotions need to be digested by himself.

As Dong Mingzhu said, "If you want your superiors to coax you into doing things, please go back to your mother and face the world when you grow up."

Grievance is only the rhetoric of the weak, and the strong always win respect by strength.

There is a "mushroom law" in psychology, that is, people should be like mushrooms, even if no one is in charge, they must endure growing in a damp and dark environment.

At the same time, it keeps accumulating energy and strength, and gradually becomes stronger from weak.

When your ability can't support your ambition, only by finding the gap and improving it accurately can you be recognized.

There is a saying: "The real meaning of work is the capital that allows you to settle down, the capital that allows you to have money to eat, raise a baby and be filial to your parents, and the capital that makes you wake up in the middle of the night without fear."

I quite agree.

When people reach middle age, they face old people, children, mortgages and car loans every day, and dare not stop, get sick or even die.

A designer once designed clothes for Fish Leong, Richie Jen, Angelababy and other stars.

During the epidemic, the star's performance stagnated, business became more and more difficult, and there was no income for several months.

In order to survive, he had to switch to being a courier.

It's only 7000 a month, which is one tenth of his salary as a designer.

From high-end fashion designers to ordinary couriers, although there is a big gap, I don't feel ashamed to make money by my own hands.

An adult, who can put down his face to make money, is truly decent.

In this world, there are people at the peak and people at the bottom, but there is no doubt that everyone who works hard deserves admiration.

Gong Xinxing, a 22-year-old boy, has been suffering from hearing impairment since childhood. Although there are government subsidies, he still hopes to earn money to buy a house and get married by his own efforts.

Today, he has been a takeaway rider for 9 months, saving 3,000 yuan every month and sending it back to his hometown.

He works 15 hours a day. Like other riders, he has experienced wind and rain, but he never feels hard.

Because he can only communicate with customers in words, sometimes the delivery is slow, and he will receive bad reviews and complaints from customers, but he will still calm down and smile at the next customer.

Even if there is sadness and helplessness in life, one can only face it bravely.

Life is not easy, making money must be cruel.

Deng Yaping once said in his speech:

"In fact, whether you can go down depends on whether you have a trick. My trick is to do it! Work! Work again! How to live without doing it? "

Only by walking can I understand that the goal of adults' life is to make money and live hard.

Do not believe you see:

At one o'clock in the morning, after 90, couples are still selling fish;

At two o'clock in the morning, the truck driver was still driving on the road;

At three o'clock in the morning, the driver is still taking orders;

At four o'clock in the morning, the owner of the breakfast shop has begun to prepare breakfast;

At five o'clock in the morning, sanitation workers have started a new day's work.

Everyone is running in tears for the sake of maintaining a basic livelihood and the future of the whole family.

It is not easy to make money. What we can do is to put away our fragile self-esteem, find the right direction, accumulate wealth and take responsibility for our own lives.

As the saying goes, "Only by swallowing your voice can you support the overall situation."

The two most important things to learn in life are suffering and pain.

If you can't stand suffering and injustice, you can't reach the ideal height.

At work, less emotion and more action.

When you become strong, your sufferings and sins can become meaningful.

There is no absolutely stable job in this world, and people who stand still will eventually be eliminated by society.

Only dare to step out of the comfort zone, constantly improve their knowledge and skills, vision and pattern, and make themselves more valuable, can they be invincible.

People who passively accept choices are all weak in fate.

Those who dare to take the initiative to get out of the comfort zone are the winners in life.

There is no shortage of opportunities in the world. What is lacking is someone who has the ability to seize the opportunity.

As the old saying goes, 360 lines, each line is the best.

No matter what industry you are in, as long as you can polish your major to the extreme and have a skill, there will be a place for you in this era.

When you have irreplaceable ability, you have the right to choose actively.

Why can't you make money even if you try your best?

"Unless you rely on luck, you will never earn money beyond your cognitive range, but the money earned by luck will often be lost in the end because of lack of strength."

Every penny you earn is the realization of your knowledge of the world.

Only by constantly learning from cattle people, thinking diligently and constantly improving their cognitive level can we get rid of "poor thinking" and change ourselves.

There is a line in the movie Sleepless in Seattle that says:

Never bear hardships, choose comfort.

From today on, work hard, make money, become a better self and reap the life you want.