The eulogy for the death of grandma

In order to express mourning for the deceased, eulogies are often prepared according to the specific situation. Eulogies are a highly ideological and realistic style of writing, which people use to express their grief and express their feelings through the achievements of the deceased. Inspire those who come after you. So what issues should you pay attention to when writing a eulogy? The following are the eulogies I compiled for my grandma’s death for your reference. I hope it can help friends in need.

I went back to my hometown a few days ago because my grandma passed away!

That was on the morning of January 16, 20xx. When I just woke up from my sleep, I heard my phone ringing. It was a text message. When I opened the text message and saw the content, I was stunned! I didn’t know what to do, I thought they were playing a joke on me! When I called my sister back, she told me it was true. I cried, crying so sadly! I told her I was going to call home and hung up the phone! Then I didn’t waste a minute and called my mom! I asked my mother if it was true! My mom said it’s true! I couldn't control myself anymore and burst into tears. I told her this was impossible, you must be lying to me. I called my grandma the day before yesterday and was still chatting with her. This couldn't be true! Mom said: "Yanan, don't cry yet. You are hiding it now. When you cry, I want to cry too. What if others find out!" When I heard this sentence, I seemed to suddenly think of something. Things are coming. I forgot, today is my third uncle’s son, my brother Liu Zhenzhou, getting married. What a coincidence! My mother said to you, see if you can come back! If you can come back, I will see your grandma one last time! If you can't, don't come back! I said let me take a look! I just hung up the phone. When I called my sister again, she said that they had arrived in Hebei and were driving home! My sister asked if she wanted to wait for me. I said no, you go back first! I think if I can get some leave, I'll take the evening train back!

I always feel like I’m in a dream. When I arrive at my workplace in a daze, I can’t work normally and don’t want to do anything. I just think about my grandma and going home! I also know that work is equally important, but I don’t know what happened to me at that time, I just wanted to go home! I was going to take a leave of absence and go home for a visit (I haven’t been home for two years, and I wanted to go back and see my grandma for the last time). Before asking for leave from the director, I told myself not to cry when I went to the director! I adjusted my mentality and walked into the director's office, but when I told her that I wanted to take leave and that my grandma passed away and I wanted to go back and see her, I still couldn't help crying! After hearing what I said, the director approved my leave without thinking and asked me if I had any money. I was really touched at the time, I didn't expect it to go so smoothly. In the end, the director lent me 2,500 yuan, and she also asked someone to buy me a train ticket, which was a station ticket (because it was the Spring Festival travel season, so train tickets were not easy to buy). I was very happy to be able to buy a station ticket. Got it! When I got on the train at 7:10 in the evening, I packed up my things and handed over my work to my colleagues. I packed up a few clothes and newspapers and went to the train station!

When I got home, I didn’t have time to look at the changes in my hometown, so I went to my grandma’s house. When I was on the road, my mother called me and told me that my sister was trying to save my grandma. She was not allowed to cry. She said she could not see my grandma until after 12 noon! He also said that not many people know about it now (referring to the death of my grandma)! Because my brother (Liu Zhenzhou) just got married, I had to wait three days before telling them! Let me hold back my tears! I finally endured it until noon! After lunch, my sister, my mother, I went to see my grandma without letting my brother (Liu Zhenzhou) see it! My mother asked me if I was afraid? I said I'm not afraid! When we walked into my grandma's house, I still felt a little scared! When I took away the quilt covering my grandma, I saw my grandma. I hadn’t seen her for two years, and she was still the same. I felt sour in my heart and wanted to cry, but my mother wouldn’t let me cry, saying she was afraid of crying. Others heard it. After I left the room, I couldn't control myself anymore. I hugged my mother and cried softly for a while. My mother was always there to persuade me! I also know that my mother feels more uncomfortable than me!

Three days were really hard, just like centuries! I didn’t dare to cry in those days, and I didn’t dare to visit my grandma during the day! Only a few of us could stay with my grandma at night. Don't dare to cry either.

Those days are really hard! My mother gave us a task in those days, which was to let my brother (Liu Zhenzhou) spend these days happily, because this is a major event in life, and it only happens once in a lifetime, so don't let him leave any regrets! I tried my best to restrain myself during those days! Let my brother (Liu Zhenzhou) live happily for the past few days, and when he sends his new daughter-in-law back to her parents' home (we have a rule: a daughter must return to her parents' home three days after she gets married, we call him "return home"). I have to do my grandma’s business! It just so happens that January 18, 20xx also coincides with my brother's (Liu Zhenzhou) birthday. My mother said that he must have a happy birthday today. Because after today and tomorrow (after the bride and her family have left), I have to tell my brother (Liu Zhenzhou) about the matter! When we had the most fun, I would think of my grandma and how lonely she was in that room with no one to accompany her! I really want to cry, but I dare not! We finally got to celebrate his birthday! In the evening, when I was having a meeting at my grandpa's house to discuss what to do about my grandma's affairs, I thought of my grandma again! I feel so uncomfortable!

The terrible three days are finally over. On the night of January 19, 20xx, my brother knew the truth of the matter. (Actually, he started to suspect it a few days ago! Because my grandma was not there on the day of her wedding, and we all went back in the future. I think he had guessed it!) He was crying like crazy! It makes us feel so sad!

The agreed date is January 21, 20xx, when my grandma will be a guest! I didn't sleep for two days and two nights before my trip! I stayed with my grandma for two days and two nights! My mother always urges me to go to bed, but how can I sleep! I won't see my grandma again in two days! None of us kids want to go to bed! No matter how hard my mother and the others urged us, they just refused to listen. My mother and the others really had no choice but to let us do whatever we wanted! Let it go to my grandma. It’s so cold in that room! Because it is my second uncle’s house, they haven’t come back to live in it for six or seven years! There are no windows in the house! The wind runs everywhere. It was winter, and it snowed heavily in our place during those few days. It was so cold!

The day for my grandma’s visit has arrived. I feel so uncomfortable! When they were preparing to close the coffin and leave, my whole body was shaking! I couldn't control myself anymore. Cry loudly! I cried so sadly! When it was time for them to close the coffin lid, I held on to the coffin lid to prevent them from closing it. A few of them came and pulled me away. I don't want to leave. My dad just hugged me! They dragged me out, saw the coffin lid closed, and when they carried the coffin out, my heart was broken and my whole body was shaking. I thought about never seeing my grandma again! My grandma really doesn’t want me anymore! I think she loved me so much and loved me so much when she was a child. If there is anything delicious that I don’t want to eat, I always keep it for us. She has no way to make money, so she always keeps a few dollars given to her by others. When we go to her place, she always tells us that we spend a lot of money in school! She doesn't have to spend money at home! Think about what a wonderful old man he is! Why not let her live a few more years! She has lived her whole life for others and spent very little time living for herself! My biggest regret is that I didn’t go home to see her for two years! Every time I think about this, I feel so uncomfortable, so uncomfortable!

Finally, I want to say, grandma, have a good journey! We will miss you! Don't worry about my grandpa, we will take good care of him, so you don't have to worry! I believe you will have a good time in heaven! Grandma, remember that in heaven you must think more about yourself, live more for yourself, and don’t always think about others. You have suffered too much in your life! Don’t let yourself suffer anymore when you get to heaven!